Is there something wrong with me?

I have been in a relationship with my gf for 5 months. When I first met her I thought she was great, and that she is potentially the one I would like to marry.
Now, I am starting to lose interest. I find myself looking at other girls and wanting to meet other girls. ( I haven't done so, as I am not a person who cheats)

To be clear, I have never slept with my gf, so I am not a "shack and dump" guy.

What really concerns me is that even my past relationships tend to be very short, as I seem to lose interest very very quickly.

Is there something wrong with me? It's like I just can't settle down.

Was googling this question and found an answer on yahoo that seems appropriate"
"Your style of loving is: Eros (this has nothing to do with horoscopes..etc)
Characteristics Eros:
Usually male
Prefers fast moving relationships
Prefers SHORT term relationships- Can't stay in a relationship for long, usually has a gf for a month, then two weeks later has another and this doesn't really make him a player, a player's style of loving is Ludus
Is affectionate with chocolates and flowers for his significant other
and there is nothing wrong with you, will eventually settle down
I am studying psychology there are many styles of loving but six main ones, and you seem to be eros"

chesirecat

回復 2# Anonymous


    To person who replied,

Where and how did you google to find these types of loving style?..I would like to find what mine is called..please and thankyou..

Guy

this is called 甜蜜期... which everything is fresh and new.
You are so excited about the new things about her.

once it over.. there are no more new things.. your interest dies down.. that all...

if you want to keep the relationship, you and her should explore new activities...and consistent doing that...

the problem is that

1. We already dont see each other that often, like once a week.

2. I recognize that I lose interest very quickly. Now a lot more quickly than other people?


I am just trying to figure out if there's something wrong with me.

ricrick

the problem is that

1. We already dont see each other that often, like once a week.

2. I recognize ...
Anonymous 發表於 2011-7-20 08:56

你的問題是不肯承認自己花心，花心好正常，是動物為了繁殖更多後代的本能
現代人類受道德應嚮產生罪惡感，所以你無須自責
愛情來的時候，你不知道，走時你也不知道
我看你還少，何不珍惜時間到處闖闖，尋找自己真的需要呢？
找到 the one，你走也走不了啦

sheep

回復 5# Anonymous


    有冇開始鐘意男生?

Guy

the problem is that

1. We already dont see each other that often, like once a week.

2. I recognize ...
Anonymous 發表於 2011-7-20 08:56

let me tell you whats wrong

just like ricric said

you dun admit your reality.
you are jealous other people's relationship, and you dun work on your relationships.


what answers exactly are you looking for anyways?
like "your gf is not good for you any more"??

seriously... did you talk to your gf about this??? if you love her.. you should.. be opened up

mibu

called honeymoon period, buddy.
on top of finding new interests and hobbies with your gf
try to learn to admire her in different ways.  if you dont learn how to admire and love different areas of her, how will you have a long relationship?

chunsh

how old are you, pal?