i think both of you are correct 你地兩位都是對的
whether it is a belief from guys or girls, it is those who fall into that thought pattern and act accordingly that contribute to their own reality
eg if a girl believes that to be 'true' for a guy, then a guy who fits into her belief will show
altho it could happen the opposite way but apparently ppl who fall into that category will run into each other until ... they change their beliefs ... or beliefs change them
either that or, the partner (M or F) rejects denies and creates a second anti-thought & or a third resolutional pattern which navigates the direction away from these 兩難 situation
... i am definitely the category of 「從現在起,我還是只研究理論就好了。」 |