20 something who have never dated

What do you think of people in their 20s who have not dated or  had a bf/gf?
Do you think these people are damaged goods? IMO being in a relationship teaches you things like how to cope and communicate with the other sex, so someone who still hasn't been in a relationship might be socially inept in some areas.

fibbi

I have seen people in 30s still have not dated before la...both nice girls / nice guys...just never "hit" by cupid i guess..

Arlui

Me too..I know people in the mid 20s who haven't dated before, but they are perfectly lovable people (not even strange at ALL...) Sometimes it is also family pressures not to date etc.

Not dating doesn't mean not linking anyone/have anyone like before ma...just I guess they decide that it isn't the right time to start a relationship yet...

tofu

maybe they are just so focus on somethings else.

dickson

i know a girl in her mid 20s who haven't dated before, but she is pretty and friendly. have not dated doesn't mean he/she must be ugly / unfriendly / fat.......

Davidcopperfeel

mid 20s never dated before? thats very common for nerd/quiet people.
would be strange if he/she never dated anyone at age 35 or plus.

ricrick

i don't see a problem. it's their personal choice. it's like some ppl love to play SM or group sex
to not having any lovers, it's like playing another kind of SM to me

Icebaby

我也認為沒有問題﹐只是﹐樓主也說得對﹐這會影響他整體的人格發展﹐因為透過與愛人相處﹐你可以學習很多東西﹐而且﹐若二十幾都沒拍過拖﹐朋友會覺得你很怪喲。

news

jsut bcoz you don't have a gf/bf before..it doesnt mean you cant learn how to communicate with the opposite sex...its a personal choice..they can also hv opposite sex friends

biggie

jsut bcoz you don't have a gf/bf before..it doesnt mean you cant learn how to communicate with the o ...
news 發表於 2010-8-12 15:59

There is a big difference between what you do with your bf/gf vs. with your opposite sex friend.  I don't think it's normal at all if there's someone who's in their 20's and still have not even dated. I mean, there must be a guy/girl that you are interested in and want to go one step further right?