Part 2
我平靜的說出我的想法。你嘆口氣，皺起眉，沒有說話， 我感覺得到，你的心裡掙扎的厲害。
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zuesel 發表於 2010-7-15 20:13
Whoever wrote this thread is pathetic
"我真的喜歡妳，並且是理性的"
lets see 理性的喜歡妳=有逻辑地喜歡妳
但係理性同感性係相对。
So he likes you as 理性 but not 感性
"逻辑" - He said he likes you because you're not his 女人 yet or he wants some others things from you.
But he never felt 感性地喜歡/love you. (According the information from the thread)
You can pretty much "say or promise anything you want" while trying to "Seduce" someone because is "FREE"
用"天平"去行量愛情?? Then you gotta be good at Math
All she thought of was "herself".
She was even "一腳踏兩船" - what a f king bitc
Example:
1990 Miata owner as "Woman"
new porsche owner as "Man"
Owner of a 1990s Miata wants to get a New Porsche 911, by the time she knew she can never get the car no matter what .Then she starts to hate the Porsche owners
Just to make it clear. I didn't write this (wish my Chinese is THAT good)! Hahaha. I forgot to write "quoted".
Anyway, I had a similar story but I persisted. Waited over 15 yrs! Turned down a few guys within these years and now happily married to the one I felt worth waiting for!! But now, too old to have a baby. Then again, if we got married when he wasn't ready emotionally, we may have been divorced by now. YOU JUST NEVER KNOW! However with my own example, I am not encouraging other women to do the same. Everyone has a different life story/situation. Women have superior instincts and base a lot of their decision making on them. Not all women want or should wait THAT freakn' long!
In general, I think youth to woman is as important as being successful to a man. The society slap on labels on women such as 中女，籮底橙，無人要，攝灶罅，豬趴。。。侮辱字眼層出不窮！都令人十分難受啊！Men want us to have nice body, can cook, clean, work, sex, look good in front of their friends, don't spent and shop much, good baby sitter...the list is endless. Honestly, if a woman becomes just a tad older, her chance of marrying becomes slimmer and slimmer. (That's not to say you should marry someone you don't love nor to say you should wait forever till you die for someone your BF). Girls, it just boils down to personal choices and what will make YOU feel secure and happy.
On the other hand, guys reluctant to get married for some legit (to men) reasons too:
~Don't feel confident he can live up to the promise of giving you happiness and security you want for the rest of your life (including money, love)
~Still many choices out there
~Biologically/emotionally not ready to settle down (includes too many choices out there still or wants to hang out with his friends frequently)
~Fear of marriage=jail
~Self-centered (He himself comes first without much consideration of his GF)
~Guys cannot bear failure, therefore need to feel secure in finance and career to ensure a woman will be well provided for. Even if his gf tells him she doesn't mind.
These are my 2 cents.
To be fair guys, let's hear your opinion. How long do you think your girl friend should wait for you to decide on marrying her and what are some things that prevents you from it?
你的說話偏激咗少少。 雖然你D指出十分好但是語氣唔駛太激動嘅.
Btw, this story didn't say anything about her hating the guy wor. Also, the story 沒有長細地交代 the chronological order of her dating sequence and break up. The main point of this story, whether you agree to or not, is to speak of a woman's feelings (right or wrong).
"女人既青春係時間﹐用時間黎做賭注。甘男人既青春/時間又算係d咩呢﹖﹖ "
While time is important to both parties, youth is a woman's 財產和本錢, 仲係要洗咗搵唔返囉. If her goal is a man that loves her and have a family, too late la and fat chance la! No matter how successful she is in career, wealth, she's still a "rotten orange" or "fill the stove's gap". But an ugly old man who has money can satisfy his needs at any age!
你的說話偏激咗少少。 雖然你D指出十分好但是語氣唔駛太激動嘅.
Btw, this story ...
zuesel 發表於 2010-7-16 11:29
"While time is important to both parties, youth is a woman's 財產和本錢, 仲係要洗咗搵唔返囉. If her goal is a man that loves her and have a family, too late la and fat chance la! No matter how successful she is in career, wealth, she's still a "rotten orange" or "fill the stove's gap". But an ugly old man who has money can satisfy his needs at any age!"
Your facts are true but that goes to both parties. Man's youth worths 財產和本錢, and most of the time they have to pay the REAL 財產和本錢 too.
Many guys want to have money , woman and family too and thats depands on how much the "woman" worths to him.
財產和本錢 are basic sources for every human.
And trust me if you're a fat and ugly woman with "Cash" you still get your toy but thats just a " Toy " and that goes to man as well.
Pretty much if you know your game you'll play it well. If you're being lead then "Sorry" come back when you're ready for it. (play the game wisely and gaining experience should help for most ppl)
was kinda funny she felt 一腳踏兩船 was aight like seeing another man compared him with his man was aright to her.
(Thats the wtf part)
If your man compared you with another (not bad)girl. - Turn it to your position where you're being judged by your beloved.
Think it more realisticly.... Your man fked this girl in the afternoon (with no protection) then comes home and say sweetie i miss you so much and bababa then have sex with you again at night.
If you don't want that kinda shi ..... please don't expect he'll take it.
And don't tell everyone you're being "FORCE TO" because he's bad and bababa.....
You don't like him then dump him 一腳踏兩船 is bs.(there are no reasons for that no matter what) and thats call "Respect"
Well i think you're a little misunderstood here.
According to her story "我，曾經很愛一個人, 用了三年多時間去等，等到最後要結婚了."
Her wish was becoming true but then "等到最後要結婚了，我卻離開了，"
BUT NOT for someone who is going to get marry and thats what she asked in the beginning.(she got what she wants but now she thinks its too late)
Put it this way if you're the guy Seriously no one wants to get dumped when they prepared to Marry someone for the rest of their life. Is easy to let the person go but this can never be recovered.
"作為一個女人，我們只是想被愛和被珍惜"
- Everything is about yourself....you wanna 被愛 you wanna 被珍惜
What about your man?? He is a man with blood too.
"隨著我們成長，我們知道there's no perfect world。"
Yes life is not fair/perfect if someone you love asked you to get marry then on the wedding day he said " I DON'T F UCKING WANT YOU ANYMORE" Please take it.- Now you see?
Don't wanna explain more too tired have to go back to work now. Anyways this is only my personal thoughts
like i said earlier if the man has no money he will get no girls too when he gets old.
Same for woman you can get any guys you want if you have the cash.
By the way life is not fair either you play the game wisely or being play
there are no guaranteed
發表於 2010-7-16 05:55
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