Catpiano

Will get use to ga la....

The poblem is ..  women don't listen to men anyway ..  they will AUTOMATIC filter what you say ....  so ..  doesn't matter u talk a lots or not la...

sheep

佢多野講你就煩啦
如果馬後炮就重死

布小熊

16# 小叻
係喇﹐我都識得有個女仔又靚又有身材﹐又有學歷﹐咩條件都有齊﹐﹐可惜標梅已過﹐變了一朵殘花﹐真慘~~~
男仔無論咩年紀﹐都會選年輕一點的喇﹐看看魏X杰都﹐娶了一個 19 歲的呢。。。肯娶年紀大的﹐就算娶了都會比人笑啊﹐最好唔好女方有錢﹐唔係實話你淘古井﹐無錢的呢﹐又會笑你缺乏母愛﹐總之唔會惹來艷羨目光﹐只會被朋友笑。。。
Littleprince 發表於 2009-10-16 07:08 PM

I want to say... if those "朋友"  laugh at your relationship just because your gf is older than you.. those are NOT your friends.
not everyone is an actor/pop star.

and your friend who is 又靚又有身材 how can she suddenly becomes a 殘花???? is she over 50??

Nam

曾經有男友話我無street smart, 又懶，又唔多鐘意打扮，又無上進心，當時我同佢暗示，當我做晒時，就唔會係佢身邊！

三年後嘅我，識打扮，事業心非常重，上進，但身邊個個已經唔係佢！當一個所謂花瓶唔再係花瓶時，你會regret 點解要佢改變，當佢好獨立時，佢根本唔再需要你！

布小熊

曾經有男友話我無street smart, 又懶，又唔多鐘意打扮，又無上進心，當時我同佢暗示，當我做晒時，就唔會係佢身邊！

三年後嘅我，識打扮，事業心非常重，上進，但身邊個個已經唔係佢！當一個所謂花瓶唔再係花瓶時， ...
Nam 發表於 2009-10-16 11:50 PM

totally agree!

doesn't sound like she has changed since 樓主 dated her. So... why suddenly 難溝通 becomes a problem. And wasn't a problem on day 1?

ani

i think i can relate.

i felt like everything was still so "perfect" the first 1-2 years of relationship. whatever that he did, i could stand everything. but then afterwards  we know each other more, start to see our difference.. and eveutally ..we couldn't really communicate with each other anymore, and we were both stubborn.

if u have doubts now, discuss with her and ensure u solve this. i know there are many reasons for not breaking up.. but then if u don't plan to marry her, please let her go. it's really hurtful to be dragging on and on.  and because of all the uncertainties, u r both wasting each other's time. either work it out, or break it off..  or else at the end... u might still ended up alone..  i really wish i could have been smarter back then

Littleprince

I want to say... if those "朋友"  laugh at your relationship just because your gf is older than you.. those are NOT your friends.
not everyone is an actor/pop star.

and your friend who is 又靚又有 ...
布小熊 發表於 2009-10-16 23:47

她太揀擇了﹐她選人人亦選她嘛。。。沒有 50﹐只是 30 過外﹐已經好少男人會過問了   部份原因是她又有錢又叻﹐好多男仔高攀唔起唔敢追囉。。。

Littleprince

其實她真的幾索架﹐遠看都還 OK﹐唔知係咪以前玩得過份 (她很喜歡 CLUBBING﹐玩通宵)﹐所以只是 30 多歲已經有很明顯的皺紋了

Coleslaw

樓主, 冇人係完美架。
一段感情係包括彼此既包容同付出。真正去愛一個人係要愛佢既全部:包括佢開心吾開心,今日靓定聽日醜等等。所謂匹配係雙方冇需要為對方做出大改變,相處自然,能夠表現出真正既自己。

當你開始要求對方做出大改變... 佢, 已經吾係同你過一世既人。
吾過世就吾好浪費人時間, 如小叻所講: 花有花期呀。

Ultraman

This is what you feel about your gf. Do you know what your gf comments you?