kisstherain

It's not that hard to meet new people... take courses and doing volunteer work are the two easiest channels IMO.

I tried taking courses, talking to coworkers, but none of those get me close friends at all. My bf takes up too much of my life. The more he knows I only have him the more advantage he takes over me, and I really don't know how to move on from this mentally abusive relationship.

kisstherain

It takes time to get "close friends". Well at least you can hang out with coworkers or those ppl from your courses. That at least you are building your own social network. How does your bf take up too much of ur life? He has to see u 24/7? Can't you just tell him you are going out with your friends? I hope he is not like the bin tai boyfriend in the Japanese drama "Last Friends"... did he threatens you to not deal with any males at work and make you leave your friends?

No he hardly wants to see me its me who wants to see him a lot. I have a weird schedule so its hard for us to see each other so whenever I can I try to spend time with him.

Hyde

ur on 9 je..... no one tell u to have him only

rainbow-davie

ur on 9 je..... no one tell u to have him only
Hyde 發表於 2009-7-2 14:42

hahhahaha 太直接啦.

tofu

"""My bf takes up too much of my life....its me who wants to see him a lot."""

do you know what you are talking about, or do you know what do you want?

zuesel

We are not her. So it's hard for us to understand how she feels unless we have similar personality as her also the same situation. Let Time heal..

noa

開始聯絡反D舊朋友....我覺得要人同你做知心友其實最緊要係be a good listener...
你呢D剛剛同男友分手肯定大巴苦水要吐, 唔好expect人地一開始就肯聽你"伸",試試聽下人地既野先~~
聽下聽下其實自己從中都會有啟發

slamdunk6

你自己都唔去面對現實，靜係記住以前bf，識到咩friend 都無用