想要完完整整既一個家...是奢侈嗎?

小叻

我受夠了.. 由細到大我要求唔多~~我唔要錢..唔要貴野...就算爹D媽咪羅我出氣打我...我唔會出聲..當我係工人甘做家頭細務洗衫吸塵...我唔介意~~我只需要完完整整既一個屋企...細細個亦諗過他們對我差係因為我係執番黎...但又可恨地覺得我長得好像媽咪...中學時同學仔亦問過我係咪父母親生.. 當時一笑至知...由於太煩...我亦唔願再向同學朋友面前透露屋企家事..不停地扮演開朗角色~~ 最近老豆同我暗示話我唔係佢親生既...因為我係7個月出世..唔信我係佢個女...又話我媽咪以前一腳踏兩船甘~~ 這一兩年來兩夫婦不停鬧交....不停鬧離婚但又唔離...當我就快要結婚時...老豆就嘈得越來越多..又話要走又話離婚...但又唔走又唔離..點解? 要逼到媽咪精神崩潰..要顛啦才開心? 還是唔抵得我就快甩難會有好日子過??

我自己都覺得開始心理不平衡... 曾發夢見到屋企火燭...只有我同老豆係屋企..老豆訓緊覺...我打算唔叫醒佢..覺得佢燒死左就最好... 一家人會樂也融融..覺得自己好變態..

我究竟應該點做??

mcjohnjohn

其實, 而家科學咁倡明, 如果係爸爸覺得你唔係佢親生, 點解唔去驗DNA呢?
至於不停鬧離婚但又唔離, 呢d 係佢地兩公婆既事啦, 做細既, 只要佢地兩老開心就得law.
當然, 係人都想有一個溫馨和諧既家庭, 但呢d 野, 你做女既又點可以控制呢?

小弟覺得, 既然你都就快有自己既家庭, 你應該從父母既相處中汲取教訓, 希望你可以同你honey組織一個美滿又幸福既家庭啦!

Lil'B

希望你可以同你honey組織一個美滿又幸福既家庭啦!
***thumb up***

meowmeowmeow

aww... poor 小叻 ... you're very strong and brave compare to alot of ppl gar la...

This is a case that your parents should deal with themselves, and there's nothing much you can do anyways.

Just try to be happy and welcome your new family members (your honey and his family)
Don't let your past (family issue) to affect your future ar...

Add oil ar...

B仔

小叻，
希望你振作！！我個人認為，而家最緊要，就係搞好你的婚禮！！ 你屋企嘅事，最好唔好比未來親家知咁多。雖然你話你HUNNIE媽媽對你好好，不過始終唔係自己的親家人（我唔係話唔當佢地係屋企人），你好難知道人地點諗。你搞得婚禮好好睇睇，一來，唔好影響婚期，二來為你自己家人姓氏保留點面子。
你老豆唔係第一次發癲，如果佢真係要走，總好過留係度係D唔適當嘅時間講埋／做埋D唔適合嘅野，都時，你要顧埋你親家個邊，仲有排你煩。當然，佢係親生定係養父，你幾唔鍾意都好，你都有受過他的恩惠。。。你點都要做得尊敬有禮，同佢講你希望佢留低。不過你勸完就算，唔好死LUR爛LUR去勉強。。。因為真係唔希望佢係你婚禮／婚事上發癲。
仲有兩個月，你就過骨～你頂住呀！

cinderelly

siu lek! ng ho ng hoi sum! think on the bright side! =D
其他人既意見我都好認同~
講真, 唔好既野亦已經發生左好耐..! 一定要忍埋落去..~!!
you are 小叻 ah ma! 一定要加油要叻呀~ 變做大叻都得ga!! =ppp

meowmeowmeow

siu lek! ng ho ng hoi sum! think on the bright side! =D
其他人既意見我都好認同~
講真, 唔好既野亦已經發生左好耐..! 一定要忍埋落去..~!!
you are 小叻 ah ma! 一定要加油要叻呀~ 變做大叻都得ga!! =ppp ...
cinderelly 發表於 2009-5-11 00:57

hehe... 加油呀大叻!!!

tofu

if you really want to know the truth & can accept the truth, do a dna test la.
guy is so concern about "green hat", this is a black hole in his mind.  
but no matter what, your wedding & new family should be your first priority.  
does your father concern that you won't take care of him after you are married?
加油

布小熊

I am not very good at expressing myself. But focus on your future family. That's something that you can control. Whatever happen between your parents, they will have to deal with it. DNA test may/may not be a resolution but don't worry about this now.
Concentrate on your wedding and we are all behind you.
小叻加油!
Even for a "normal" family... I heard my mom "or" about my dad's bad behavior for the whole afternoon today la. Each family has their hard story.

Littleprince

小叻﹕

聽見你的事感覺難過。。。可是﹐上一代的事不是你可以插手太多的﹐隨緣吧。。。

同意上面朋友說的﹐努力搞好自己的婚禮﹐埋首建立屬於自己的幸福家庭才是上策呀。。。

祝福您

PS﹕ 答你的問題﹐ 在這個人慾橫流的世代﹐這的確是奢侈的想法。。。一個幸福的婚姻需要雙方努力維繫﹐而我們身邊真的聽見太多不幸福的婚姻﹐破裂的婚姻了。。。這都緣於人的自我和自私﹐希望大家都為對方多一點﹐世上多些幸福家庭﹐社會更好﹐世界更美好。。。所謂修身齊家治國平天下﹐一個好的世界是由無數美好家庭組成的。