小叻

原帖由 小叻 於 15-12-2008 23:03 發表
I am surprised that I am not the only one... My parents always argue... my dad said i am not his daughter.. after 2x yrs.. my mom suicided in Sept.. coz my dad wants to go back to hk and worry free..  ...

CORRECTION: my mom tried to suicide in Sept...she is still alive.. after 1 day stay in hospital..

chocoWinCY

it's really "家家有体難唸的經"

i thought mine was kinda bad..but apparently many ppl have worse situation than mine...i seriously think that my parents need to open up and talk about their problems...my dad refused...so he only nags me about my mom and my bro...on the other hand, there are things i can't tell my dad that i know about my mom...i am always in the middle...it drove me nuts sometimes....i actually suggested to my dad that they should go for marriage counselling...but it seems to me that old ppl don't buy this idea....i seriously think that they should open up and talk and listen to the other person...aigh....they kinda ruined my dream about marriage....

ravemother

after reading all your stories, i really think i should cherish my family.
"every family has a bible that is hard to read"

don't you guys give up...suicide/run away is not a solution.

Littleprince

小叻﹕

對你的遭遇感到很遺憾﹐希望你可以堅強一點
有需要應該找朋友傾下﹐唔好諗埋一邊呀。。。

Littleprince

答返樓主﹐你想勸父母離婚我覺得很難﹐正如你說﹐他們已經習慣了這樣的生活﹐唔拗交可能反為唔慣呢﹐呢D可能就系他們的溝通方式。。。
我反而想勸你唔好太上心﹐我擔心的是你的身體﹐必要時勸他們去看輔導員。。。而你自己則應該恢復正常社交及生活﹐必要時搬開住喇。。。

CWong

先叫你老豆睇精神科医生，再去見心理同婚姻导！

yayaya

搬開住咪得咯，理鬼得距地

yayaya

而且有交吵唔係幾好咩，最怕無交吵，吵下先有激情掛

MyOMy

原帖由 ravemother 於 2008-12-16 00:26 發表
after reading all your stories, i really think i should cherish my family.
"every family has a bible that is hard to read"

don't you guys give up...suicide/run away is not a solution.

Rave, runaway is an option, it may not be a good one. Subconsciously, you know you can handle the pressure, you runaway to keep your sanity.

siumaibb

feel sorry for you guys, seek help from consultants or social workers, they are there for a reason.