ricrick

原帖由 B仔 於 2009-2-25 11:34 發表

點溫柔？哈哈哈哈
你教吓人點樣好溫柔咁去丫！

再見喇，你要保重，然後再一下吻別

我和你吻別在無人的街
讓風痴笑我不能拒絕
我和你吻在狂亂的夜
我的心等著迎接傷悲

Purpleheart

做女仔要自愛~ 唔好容忍男朋友打你! 因為佢打你一次, 你忍受, 佢以後小小事都會打你!!!

如果係我我會即刻去醫院驗傷, 再報警~ 好多情況都告得入!!

ricrick

原帖由 Purpleheart 於 2009-2-25 15:14 發表
做女仔要自愛~ 唔好容忍男朋友打你! 因為佢打你一次, 你忍受, 佢以後小小事都會打你!!!

如果係我我會即刻去醫院驗傷, 再報警~ 好多情況都告得入!! ...

你甘有經驗甘既？

原帖由 B仔 於 2009-2-25 11:36 發表

Forced by...? 個情人？定係屋企／朋友？

Friends who may be biased.
Neutral encounters who believes that violence is never a solution for any and in any situation.

And I should mention that domestic violence is much more common then you can imagine. I have grown up from a violent family, with violent immediate relatives from both sides, and I have seen friends in my social circle unfortunately involved. There is no way to isolate a violent relationship within population unless - the victim steps forward. Many victims do not learn their lesson until their safety has esculated to a crucial threat. Some, do not learn even after they are fortunate to survive an attack.

Love one another.

Catpiano

Yeah !!

Beat it !  Beat it !  Beat it !

benyaoguai

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2009-2-25 05:35 PM 發表
And I should mention that domestic violence is much more common then you can imagine. I have grown up from a violent family, with violent immediate relatives from both sides, and I have seen friends i ...

i know~ i have researched on things like that for a project
but since you've been through it~ did you help yourself?
and what kinda things were going through ur mind if you did or didn't go get help?

giginium

原帖由 benyaoguai 於 2009-2-25 23:20 發表


i know~ i have researched on things like that for a project
but since you've been through it~ did you help yourself?
and what kinda things were going through ur mind if you did or didn't go get hel ...

google battered women syndrome and you'll get some information on what classifies as this syndrome, as well as what women in this situation do and think.

原帖由 benyaoguai 於 2009-2-25 23:20 發表


i know~ i have researched on things like that for a project
but since you've been through it~ did you help yourself?
and what kinda things were going through ur mind if you did or didn't go get hel ...

I have not been through it quite yet - I am still going through it.
My stream of conciousness constantly alerts me, and it is the catch 22 where you are torned between "life" and "love". At the end, you will just ask yourself this question: "What is life without the one you still love?". And that's when you duel your physical tolerence against your mental tolerence.

myversa

"What is life without the one you still love?"

The common saying would be "you can still find a better one, one who would treasure you."

Personally I am against "men hitting women" things.  I will never hit my wife in any way.  I do not even verbally assault my wife in any way neither.  People being together should treasure each other.

Yes, we do have argument from time to time but we just argue, nothing more.  Controlling temper is very important.