i really appreciate everyone in the forum cheer me up.......but the matter is, i ain't a "good" husband, doesn't mean i don't support her, love her, care about her.....etc, i broke my promises, not self motivated, even i act like a dead dog, but still......fate is fate, i'm really lucky that i can marry my wife, however assume marriage MUST contain conflicts, arguments, and forgiveness??? to me, i can forgive my wife, i won't say anything AT ALL, because she is my wife......no matter she did right or wrong, she must have her own reason, the best i can do is support her all the way until i pass away. or you guys can say i'm stupid, or being a dumb ass, i rather lie to myself that because she loves me, thats why she hates me. 3 years is just a beginning of the marriage, it's really tough for me to hang on tight and gain back her faith, love, and trust, the best thing i can do is let it cool down, and try to contact her. i don't wanna see her tears anymore.
You are totally helpless guy, do u know that?
you give yourself up easily, no wonder she left you.
Don't want to see her tears doesn't make you a Romeo.
It doesn't make you a great man.
and stop blame fate, conflict, forgiveness that is not that case apparently she is not buying it. Perhaps you should ask yourself did you accommodate her as a partner for life.
When she did something not right it is respectful to let her know that you think is wrong.
Forgive everything, does it sounds like "I don't care" to you?
Forgiving is for the gulity ones. If they do not feel gulity, they will not want your godful forgiveness.
AND DO NOT SHOW US HOW GREAT YOU ARE, AND HOW GREAT YOU DID.
SHOW US YOU ARE A HUSBAND AND WANT YOUR WIFE BACK.
I don't know the whole story, so I can't give you much comments. One advice, if you love her, and you want to save this marriage, I would highly recommend you to seek out a marriage counseler. Good luck!!
3 years is not a long time but also is not a short time...
having the decision back in the day to marry each other is a big step! and it involved alot of memories and troubles to get to there...
i believe you two still have feelings for each other, but what i see though, is YOU giving up SO easily just because of ur excuses "I DUN WANT TO SEE HER IN TEARS" anymore !
HOW WOULD YOU KNOW IF YOU LET HER GO SHE WONT CRY HER BUM OFF? HOW WOULD YOU KNOW IF SHE REALLY DOENS'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE?
a girl could say these stuff to a guy to find out if he really loves her and tries to get her back...!!
but i dun see you trying to take any actions @ all...
which kinda disappoints and makes everyone mad here......
"Out-Out Brief Candle, Life is but a walking shadow"
- William Shakespeare
i have been tried my best already everything i can do, i dun really care everybody look my down, or piss me off, i just wanna show my feelings here, because i have nobody i can talk to. thank you. admin, please delete this thread.
there is no need to hide your name, pink cooler. You may as well dig a hole and bury your head into it. Face your problem.
Face it! See! your own wife is laughing at you.
File a divorce ba lah. You are a no marriage man.
Pink cooler's wife: stop laughing at him, he will found himself sympathic.
發表於 2008-3-21 22:39
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