Yui

I remember one time my parents had a bid fight (verbally), hearing them swearing to each other hurts so much that I had to leave home. I just left home without telling them, I did not pick up their phone for many hours, at the end I phoned them and let them know that I don't want any more fighting and swearing at home. They stop the fightings after, at least they don't argue when I'm around.

Am I selfish that I don't them express their feelings?

yayaya

no relationship is 100 percent dependable

chobit

My experience is just the opposit.  I do 15-20 weddings a year (Photographer), and almost everytime I hear their vow, or how they met etc.., that remind me about my own marriage, and how I should love my wife more!  But then 70% of my weddings are non-Chinese.

原帖由 akshea 於 2008-7-17 23:00 發表
you are not alone honey. I am a part time wedding videographer  and I am starting to question on marriage and the whole wedding thingy. You have no idea how many times I am seeing people saying the we ...

Bica

trust me.. u r not alone..
i still dunno how to face my dad...
and he thought that i can treat him as before....

pepsis2

oh... too bad nowaday marriage seems soooo sad & disappointing in many eyes..
i dunno what to say for those who have broken families & experienced process of divorce...
but i do think in a relationship, THE PAPER ITSELF DOESN'T GUARANTEE MARRIAGE LASTS FOREVER.. The point is 2 ppl work together very hard in the same pace to walk through their life TOGETHER.

I do believe if 2 try very hard & act non-selfishly & really do everything for the goodness of the family & each other & communicate well... marriage works ga... (although it seems lots of works, & it does, I believe that's the process of learning & turning yourself into much much better person)

thank you for all ur replies<3
i guess the idea that people can have more choice made things worst
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people no longer cherish what they have... they knew they can just leave whenever it is not making them happy...
guess ppl's patience & tolerance level decreased...