my wife is gone

pink_cooler

my wife said her heart is dead....and she moved out with her sister, what can i do, this issue is nothing between 3rd person.

shutterbug

Not the greatest thing to happen on Good Friday...

Do you know what she didn't like about you?

Ultraman

You must have been doing something keep upsetting your wife... . What's that? But anyways, I think that killing "thing" cannot be solved, or else the situation won't be like now...... Good luck to you, man!

Guy

Faith came in all sort of ways.
but what keeps a woman stand by next a to a man is that that man have something for her to wait for, for example a promise; a plan, and/or something about himself.

I believe you have constantly communicated with you wife i believe... did you know or remember what have you promised her?
the "thing" can be vary but you must put that in mind and commit to that.

now it wasn't too late. you still have chance,a very little chance tho. but you must grab onto that.


now.. for the "what you can do?" part.
1st thing you need to ask yourself. what are the difference between you now and the you when you get married. what were the changes? positive or negative?
2nd thing you need to think what is she don't like about you? like messiness poor habit sort of .
3rd thing recall yourself what you have promised her thru out all these years(before and after marriage).

When you done all these 3 things then you can find her and talk about what happen that she dont like what she dont feel comfortable with... YES... it's all about her...avoid saying that was what happened cuase those most likely turn out to be an excuse for her.

re-promised the thing you have promised, committed, make some new plan for both of you. that will be last thing for you to do after you done all of the above.

Hyde

congratulation!

Catpiano

Oh .. sad to hear that ..   I have heard so many similar cases lately ..   

Good luck ..  


( At least, when I first read your title .. I think your wife is ..  long gone .. )

panglokkin

my wife is gone
my wife said her heart is dead....and she moved out with her sister, what can i do, this issue is nothing between 3rd person.
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1 IF YOU TWO ARE LEGALLY MARRIED, ITS GONNA TAKE AWHILE TO FILE A DIVORCE. SO OFFICIALLY SHE IS STILL YOUR WIFE

2 IF A PERSON'S HEART IS DEAD, HE OR SHE WONT BE ABLE TO TALK OR MOVE

3 WHAT YOUR WIFE DID TO YOU, YOU CAN DO THE SAME TO HER

4 SINCE YOUR WIFE ALREADY MOVED OUT WITH HER SIS, YOU MIGHT AS WELL ASK YOUR BRO TO MOVE IN (THE 4TH PERSON)

puZZle

原帖由 panglokkin 於 2008-3-21 16:35 發表
my wife is gone
my wife said her heart is dead....and she moved out with her sister, what can i do, this issue is nothing between 3rd person.
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uhhhh......

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anyway cooler
it sounds to me like the problem was built up L/T bor...
try to really change yourself for good? (of coz not saying you are the only one at fault)

slamdunk6

哀莫大於心死
goodluck