冷戰

大家試過最長時間，冷戰過幾耐？
最後，誰先開腔緩和緊張的關係？

RayRay

冷戰 with ?????

男/女朋友...

CWong

根据以往经验人仕提供，冷戰最好发生在夏天，而在秋天之前了结，咁样可以為炎夏降降温，若不在秋天耒臨前了结，那么冬天就會更难受了！不防多留意天文台发報的天氣预測，便可估计該年冷戰的时间長短！若出現冷戰性冷感，就须在晚上彼此以身体不断相互磨擦、磨擦又磨擦以提升体温，直至二人体温足以焚身，这样冷戰有望於一夜間消失！

[ 本帖最後由 CWong 於 2008-8-12 23:37 編輯 ]

Littleprince

最理想係男人開口先﹐我覺得就算男人認下低威﹐先講對唔住都唔會死﹐偏偏有D男人就係死要面子﹐死都唔肯﹐情願彼此難受。。。如果女人再硬頸D﹐無野格﹐咪聽分開羅。。。

講返樓主問的問題﹐我以前冷戰很久都試過﹐信主之後﹐想起主說﹐“生氣卻不可犯罪﹐不可含怒到日落”﹐所以往往﹐都情願主動當無野﹐不需多久便結束冷戰﹐例如半小時吧。。。 因為事實﹐冷戰令相方痛苦又無建設性﹐真係何苦﹖

pepsis2

haha.. my temper is not very good.. so i asked my honey for a favorite (& dunno why he promised me & keeps it)... whenever we're 冷戰 for more than a day (before going to bed), he will come up to me & apologize no matter who's fault is it... coz i'm very "heart soft" ar... if I know i'm the one who commit the "crime" & responsible.. after he apologize I will feel extremely guity & I will apologize to him right away ...
i know it sounds aweful but it works for us...

gum depends on your man's characteristics la... many are very very 要面子...

myversa

my temper is better than my wife's.  No matter whose fault it is, I always go up to her and apologize to her.  Our 冷戰 never goes more than 20 minutes...

我都信左主，但依然係新手。
原來有句咁ge 野。。。

sigh...
我遇著o個個就係呢D咁ge 死要面子ge人。
但某程度上，我會估係咪佢已經想分開下呢。
諗到呢個位，我ge 保護程式又自動啟動。
但係又唔捨得。。。
我都唔知........
sighhhhhh...
但係又驚自己認低威先，佢之後又好似invincible 咁
因為，我開始覺得自己有D種佢。
=/

Littleprince

呢D都係訓練 EQ 的好機會﹐
兩個人相處真係一門很高深的學問。。。

我另一半係好硬頸的人﹐
如果我同他一樣企硬﹐
就已經分左手好多年﹐
所以我惟有自己改黎遷就他﹐
有時都頗無奈﹐
因為有時很明顯是他的錯﹐
都要我主動扮無野﹐
個心難免會唔舒服。。。

樓上的朋友都沒有說錯﹐
蹤慣了對雙方關係無改善﹐
我覺得如果雙方能接受的話﹐
邊個先認低威都無所謂﹐
只係過後應該要反省成件事﹐
要面對到底錯的是那一方的問題﹐
否則﹐積壓下來﹐只會增加怨對﹐
久而久之就會出問題。。。

當然﹐我們學了主耶穌的﹐
還要記著主的話﹕

“愛是恆久忍耐﹐又有恩慈。。。”(林前13)

當然我知道知易行難﹐
所以我自己都只係學習當中。。。

cyberstudio

Hi 匿名, before you come here to ask a question, you already have the answer in your subconscious mind. (Lots of women come and ask me questions about their love problems, and I told them the same.) I am just a mirror which lets you see clearly what yourself are thinking.

What you want is to end the cold war right now. There is nothing wrong to follow your heart. However, you have no right to change someone's personality - any person, even if it is your boyfriend. You won't succeed in changing him anyway, no matter how hard you try. Take him as a whole person if you love him. If not, you have every right to leave him and go for greener pastures (but I know you don't have the courage to do so).