IF you want to 贏, you might lose. If you 犧牲和退出, you will never lose.
It's a cultural thing. I think the "男人" in this article mostly targeting the guys from HK. I doubt 男人 from other places would feel the same way.
如果你地鐘意左個女仔但佢已經有男朋友了~~ 你地會放棄還是繼續鼓起勇氣愛她 / 追求她??
The "女仔" in this situation can be replaced by an object, like a car, a house or a shirt because there is no love involve. The 男人 merely WANT or would like to have the 女仔 to be his GF. This is just a situation to see if the guy is brave enough to take what he wants from another guy. However, things would be a lot more complicated if there is "love" involved and it shouldn't be discussed as a general case. Each story is different and it should always be inconclusive because there is no right or wrong. No one should ever judge on a relationship.
I think 深雪 is a bunch of bull....always making stupid assumptions
There are no standards really...different people have different thoughts and actions...
if the relationship doesn't have any flaws, then you can't budge in even if you're brave enough. if the girl/guy in the relationship has enough love, then sluts & man-whores will not be able to get on the ride
first u should try to get her back... otherwise u will regret...im 100% positive on that... but seriously... if the other guy is rich+ handsome+ love her as much as u do ( or almost ) then u should just quit... just do whats best for her... but.... if he keeps on making her cry ... then... thats another story...anywayz, 退出是为了她。。可以开心的过下去。。。如果真的爱她。。自己的心再怎么痛都可以忍的。。那个男孩是对的，牺牲自己是为了让她可以过的更好。争取，拼命有一半是为了自己的感受。。而那个男孩认为她的感觉比自己的更重要。
I think most mature men would choose let go of the girl because they understand sometimes, love cannot be forced. And it's not worthed it to be in a tri-angle situation.
發表於 2008-3-28 16:59
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