Better Off

After a breakup, when we tell ourselves “I can do better than that” or “I deserve better” or “I’m better off without him” etc, do we really mean what we say? Or we are just saying this because … we have to do so to get over a breakup? Are we really “better off”?

I’m really starting to think that instead of “I’m better off with him”, it’s actually “he’s way better off with me.” He is getting married and having a great life. But as for me, I’m single and not so fabulous, and not to mention lonely as well.

“Move on…” Yes, I know. I know! But gosh, he really is better off without me. How sad is this?!

Wee

speaking of experience...u can express this emotional mindset but don't indulge urself in it.
female brain is very good at "circulating around the horn's corner"...

better off  yau dim..not better off yau dim.
he's married n' watever... a stranger he is.
not fair to compare urself to a historical figure

Ultraman

"Better off" or not all depends on how you look at it! Not to be "ah Q", but think about it rationally: getting married really means a better life? While being single is not? The fact is, not always necessarily positive la! If a person found a non-Mr or non-Mrs right, sooner or later they may divorce (not being black-hearted, ok?!) While divorce (supposed to be a negative term) will never happen on a single person, haha! But on the other hand, if a person got married but having a hell-like marriage life, then getting divorce is totally a relief and it's good to happen ("divorce" to him/her is a good thing instead)!

I don't know you and him, I can't comment that you deserve better or not. However, it means he is not your Mr. right and please have faith and hope, I'm sure you'll find the one you love and love you in the future la!