原帖由 buzzlightyear 於 2008-2-17 17:14 發表 
咁等洛去我好似好on dog 朋友朋友朋友朋友口中
好似話佢已經有左第三者 仲有埋sex
比d意見我
我發各我真係好唔捨得
同埋係朋友身邊個個都叫我唔好再等 個個都講佢壞話
I am sorry but I really hate ppl like u for listening to others but not confronting the person. I was a victim of gossiping (my bf listens to his MOM saying stuff about me and immediately be mad at me... @*76+&%#+$*!!~ ) so I am really pissed that you take the comments from "朋友朋友朋友朋友口中" personally. I am not telling you be ignorant and stay in denial, but you don't have to keep it in your heart like it's the truth.
Obviously you don't wanna wear green head and I am not saying that what you heard is not true at all. There's misunderstanding everywhere; you friends don't mean to ruin your gf preputation but meanwhile, maybe your gf is not cheaing on you. The thing is, if you suspect that she is cheating on you, why don't you take a more active role? Either spend some time investigating as you have a hard time letting go of this relationship, or just ask her face to face. It is at least quicker; better than hanging in the mid of air don't know what to do and feel so helpless. Of course friends' opinions are important as they can look from a 3rd person point of view (assuming that they are true friends of yours), but if you really care about this relationship this much, why don't you step up and be a real man? If you confront with her, either she tells you that yes she has someone else in mind and will dump you eventually, which you will at least at a closure, or she tells you that those rumors are not true, or she had been week but now she knows what she wants and would want to work on this relationship with you. And so, you can at least make a decision of either forgiving her or let her go and move on with your life.
Sorry for being so harsh on you, but I think you can be more proactive (at least don't have to be reactive) and feel like you are waiting for your execution.
Good luck pal!!  |
發表於 2008-2-17 17:14
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