Ultraman

Can't really  say that la...!
If getting married is stupid since so many ppl divorce; then having a gf/bf is also stupid cuz so many people break up?! And thus eating is stupid cuz you will produce shxt?! Haha..... just kidding.
Actually, there are pros and cons for being single and getting married la. Don't force yourself to get married if you're not ready yet; and don't be scare to get married if you're ready for it. Haha......

LOK

原帖由 Ultraman 於 2008-1-15 02:18 發表
Can't really  say that la...!
If getting married is stupid since so many ppl divorce; then having a gf/bf is also stupid cuz so many people break up?! And thus eating is stupid cuz you will produce s ...

I mean, if you have fds who married and then getting divorce after only couple yrs... what's the point to get marry.  I even think if they didn't marry at all, they might still together.

myversa

原帖由 LOK 於 2008-1-15 11:03 發表

I mean, if you have fds who married and then getting divorce after only couple yrs... what's the point to get marry.  I even think if they didn't marry at all, they might still together.

It's really hard to say that "if they did not marry at all, they might still together."  How do you know that for sure?  Things happened for purpose.  Who would know things that did not happen?  Maybe your fds would meet another person and be in a worse situation if your fds did not get married.  But maybe your fds would still be together like you said but no one knows for sure.

At least they have two years of memory of happily together.

I have been with my wife for more than 5 years, and still happily married.

LOK

haha, that's why i said "I even think"

if the two yrs were happy, they won't divorce la, right? maybe only the first yr were happy.

You must be the lucky one, hope you will be happy with her forever.

Catpiano

Um ..  not always gei ..  I wanted to marry ..  so .. we married la...  

What I notice ..  in Canada .. most MEN (say chinese) like to be seatle .. and find a wife ..   ( since not much choice here, and women are picky here )

But in HK ..  then ...  no la.. most of my male friends, dont want to get marry .. way too many choices ar mah  ..

myversa

Thank you, LOK.  I wish I can grow old with my wife too.  To tell the truth, managing marriage is not an easy job but I believe I can do it.     Sometimes wants and actually does it are two different things.

SAZABI

原帖由 Catpiano 於 2008-1-15 14:09 發表
Um ..  not always gei ..  I wanted to marry ..  so .. we married la...  

What I notice ..  in Canada .. most MEN (say chinese) like to be seatle .. and find a wife ..   ( since not much choice here,  ...

CP... I agree that the males I know like to settle down.  
But... Not much choice here??? You should move to Vancouver.

Catpiano

Saz ..

I am in Calgary ar ..  BYstatistic ...  Calgary has more Single MEN then Single WOMEN then anyother major city in Canada ..  and also has the hignest income ..  

That is why .. girls are spoiled here ..  especially chinese ..  any girl .. who is NOT ugly ..  can have some followers ..  


Ghost doesn't know Vancouver has lots of girls, and they are mostly pretty mei ..

Thx God .. I have a good wife already ....  otherwise, for sure I need to move to Vancouver la..

[ 本帖最後由 Catpiano 於 2008-1-15 16:02 編輯 ]

SAZABI

CP... solution... wife in alberta... mistress in BC

Catpiano

HEY !  SAZ, you dont know how to use the PM function??

Shu ...    now you know why I go Vancovuer every few months la..