Pooner

by the way, there was no "other relationship"... use your wildeset imagination... think of how else can you term the word "cheated"...

fcuk myself for being so forgiving... i should just dump her again... seriously...

cyberstudio

At the end of fine print, it usually says, "if the Chinese translation differs from the English version, the English version shall take precedence."

The fine print of a woman is similar. "If a woman's words differ from her actions, her actions shall take precedence."

yungfourfour

Sigh.

No matter how we think, and what we all tell you, it's you who made the final decision.

Traum said you can play her back...if you can be "jiN" enough
If I were you ( from a guy perspective ), just do whatever you feel good and make you in a "win" situation.

I am JIN, HO JIN tim
If I were you I'd break up for sure, I'd commit to another relationship with a suitable girl. but if she asks to hang out I'd still hang out, but if she wants anything more than that (e.g. sex) just refuse, just treat her as a friend, plain friend.  I don't care if she say sorry to me again and again, I am the one in the "win win" situation by that time.

Well
If you wanna forgive her, you really have to do it completely (but from your notes I don't think it's easy at all)

Sigh

Alcoholic

ok...悔氣說話,講完就算。
個條女D怨氣鑊鑊都寫上blog比大擺人睇。。。
咁難為佢，就唔好為你而做啦~
做得唔滿意，都唔係用心你幫你做啦~
唔用心，佢又點真心鍾意/愛你呀?

besides, if she doesn't "feel" for those "comments" anymore...the fact is: at the time she wrote it, she DID FEEL... and when she wrote it, she was still with YOU. <-- enough said?

about being 賤...
of course, you have more than enough reason to be 賤格。
but to me, why do you wanna waste YOUR time to 報仇? you only revenge when you still care for that person, & doing so will just reveil your weakness. to me, it shows that YOU are the loser. the best revenge is to move on, regain your dignity & confidence, & get that b!tch out of your life as if she was just some dirty newspaper that was delivered to your doorstep... 份報紙又污糟，又睇完，又舊，咪撇甩佢囉~

[ 本帖最後由 Alcoholic 於 2007-12-18 21:56 編輯 ]

Pooner

thanks for all your comment guys...
i believe my course of action will be to take a break from her... kinda revisit "us" again sometime in the spring (which is pretty unlikly)...  i just don't know if i should "talk" to her during the break... i've known her since elementary... and we've been good friends since... i guess i just don't know if we can still be friends after all this crap... i guess my good nature tells me that i want to see my friend get better... thing is... my friends says she doesn't see me as a friend for treating me like that... what can i say... i'm a good person... and a dumb person...

ahhh who knows... between now and the time i talk to her again (sometime soon)... i might as well just call it over again... for a final time...

notgoddy

You can become a monk.

Alcoholic

Mr. Lik,
hmm... to me, if i have nothing better to do, i would focus on encountering a new girl.
even if you take the girl back for further exploiting... in the eyes of other people, you are still a fool. why? 1st of all, she cheated, you take her back? are you a man? 2ndly, maybe she's not a virgin anymore (i don't mind sex before marriage), but after her letting other guys screw her while you screwed her simultaneously  before... man, then you deserve that big huge green hat for taking back a cheap used whore~ if she comes back begging after cheating, she is one 賤 b!tch to me too. the only way to be a 賤 guy is from the start of the relationship, treat your gf 賤.

Pooner,
if you decide to break it, even if you guys knew for a long time... imo, i think it's wiser to not keep contact for a while at least. let you rethink it, stay firm on your decision. let her think it over...IF she really will smarten up. when things are calmer, then decide if you guys can still remain friends, or reconsider a 2nd chance if you feel that you still love her.

Pooner

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2007-12-19 08:48 發表
Mr. Lik,
hmm... to me, if i have nothing better to do, i would focus on encountering a new girl.
even if you take the girl back for further exploiting... in the eyes of other people, you are still a  ...

i guess here's the thing... if i don't have contact during the "break" time... how would i know she's not carrying her old habits... i might as well just call it off now... so damn troublesome... i can understand why some of my buddies choose to be single now...