chunsh

原帖由 Yui 於 2008-1-5 14:18 發表
華美子,你既感受我明白,你已經做得很好.你算很體貼你的奶奶,其他人不明白,亦不用介懷.

不過網上太多判官,以為自己個套道理一定對一定work,你訴下苦都要聽訓,更不堪是那些泠嘲熱諷.完全欠缺體恤心,很惡頂.

那些老掉 ...

自己訴苦就得﹐別人給意見就不行
當初就不要去論壇啦, 那幹麼不挖個泥洞去傾訴or 對著洋娃娃說話呢?

華美子﹐u have done a good job about tolerating what you dont like about
your 奶奶﹐因為只要你說錯些什麼﹐你老公就會進入一個萬劫不復的境地........

但在你埋怨你奶奶的同時﹐有沒有想過她其實可以不那麼辛苦來take care 你兩母
子/女呢?

記著哦﹐你老公和你老爺怎樣對你奶奶是一件事﹐但你不可以學他們.....

simplistic

冇錯冇錯﹐真係唔可以得罪奶奶
對佢來講你永遠係外人﹐可能對你來講都覺得佢係外人,所以我地冇0個種親人先會有的批評權利

我對自己阿媽煮既野無論係餸,飯,定湯都一定每餐“彈”過一輪先滿意﹐不過奶奶煮的只要唔係壞同熟我就照食可也
之前同佢一齊住半年﹐發覺佢好似有d味覺白痴﹐成日煲魚湯但就腥到老爺同姑仔都唔太惦﹐粉葛湯變到一pat漿糊﹐飯霉霉爛爛﹐所有餸都超鹹﹐如果0個個係自己阿媽就一早發老脾了
當然差唔多每餐都係我挨義氣做捧場客﹐唔理三七21化身做垃圾桶一概話好味

一向唔食青豆﹐矮瓜﹐冬菰髮菜豪C﹐雞腳等等﹐阿媽煮 = 4都唔食﹐奶奶煮? 。。。 Bring It On !!!
湯仲一定要一飲而盡﹐問你添唔添?
緊係添啦。。。點知奶奶就會好開心地去換隻外面食越南粉0個d大size碗幫我添到滿滿
咁點啊﹐唯有心裡一路OS一路笑笑口飲落肚

chunsh

原帖由 Traum 於 2008-1-6 11:59 發表

好一句 "永遠都係外人"﹐ 而且對於某D阿媽 (即係個奶奶) 來講﹐ 呢個 "外人" 仲呃走左佢個仔添... 在佢嘅立場來講﹐ 佢唔同你即場反面﹐ 日日抄大鑊經已俾足面你...

真係俾阿 Simplistic 一句講中晒。

-力 ...

無法啦﹐一山不能hide 2 虎

tsumorichisato

兩個無血緣關係既女人好難住響同一屋檐下.

satsuki

原帖由 simplistic 於 2008-1-6 01:28 發表
冇錯冇錯﹐真係唔可以得罪奶奶
對佢來講你永遠係外人﹐可能對你來講都覺得佢係外人,所以我地冇0個種親人先會有的批評權利

我對自己阿媽煮既野無論係餸,飯,定湯都一定每餐“彈”過一輪先滿意﹐不過奶奶煮的只要唔係壞同熟 ...

講得實在太~好喇！
由其是 "永遠係外人" 呢句!
第時結o左婚死都唔會同奶奶住
一定要住既話, 就死都唔結婚.

tck

原帖由 華美子 於 2008-1-4 10:54 發表
尋日晚飯後我返房休息不久，我老公好嬲咁上黎話佢媽咪終於癡左線，佢唔想再理佢。

我知佢呢番說話係氣言，於是問佢咩野事，我老公話因為晚飯時奶奶煮左Ｄ超難食既野：一碟烚到一pat pat既小唐菜，一碟淡到無味淨係得粉絲同紹菜既 ...

........... you did your best already... fully support ~

blueprint

想發洩一下, 訴下苦, 沒問題. 重點是有心去改善情況. 既然你都說現在沒有甚麼憂鬱症, 那不如平心靜氣地想, 日後你會如何處理得更好. "好"的意思是, 下一次有這樣又那樣的情況, 你都學會一笑置之, 讓氣氛放得輕鬆點.

"你怎樣對人, 人怎樣對你." 這句話雖然不必然, 但如果自己不夠愛人如己的話, 說甚麼都是自己的問題. 雖則人只是人, 但要解開結, 就要自己打開了. 沒藉口的.

不記算人家的惡. 凡事包容,凡事相信,凡事盼望. 愛是永不止息.

Alcoholic

"永遠係外人"


when things happen, i try to ignore it, or "left ear in, right ear out" to make myself feel better. sometimes i know that my lai-lai & my 姑仔 just says sh!t because they're just too bored, and even my hubby knows that they like minding other people's business (not "caring-for-you" type, but where "they have nothing to do with the matter" type). not that i want to treat them as 外人, but letting them  into my personal life/feelings, or some parts of my married life with my hubby will just cause more friction.

no matter how good you are, i don't think the lai-lai's will ever truly like you... they might, one day when they get a comparison~ so in the meantime, 有心病，都好比正面 fight with lai-lai... cus you will always be the loser

[ 本帖最後由 Alcoholic 於 2008-1-7 08:39 編輯 ]

Catpiano

Aiya .. so good .. can live with parents .. I am so jealous ..