欣宜暫不赴災區直得讚

CWong

欣宜恐赴災區阻救援

鄭欣宜、丁子高前晚出席Swarovski慈善晚宴。欣宜在會上獻唱英文歌，記者問鄭欣宜會赴災區探訪？她說：「暫時未有人叫，不過我覺得災民好需要我們支持，但依家救援人員忙於救災，我驚這個時候反而會阻住，遲少少先啦！」

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鄭欣宜真係成熟咗，做事好有分寸，唔似有啲明星、名导演咁，唔知博乜又話親自出飛机去救災又話要做乜做七，佢哋真係当晒自己係superman，好似乜都得咁，最顶唔順就係个古天乐，地震後头兩日就当咗自己係专业心理治療師，話要去导当地啲学生，嗰啲震民、学生同軍人经历咗今次地震，內心深处受嘅伤唔係普通人可理解，而且徵狀可長達十几二十多年，古生受過咩教育咁巴闭可以导人呢？幸而后期唔知係咪佢有自知之明都唔再聽佢再发up疯，反而有几个呀哥呀姐却話死都要去災区不可，佢哋好心字吓刘翔，人哋打个电話慰问一个受伤災民已经帮咗人哋，若然嗰班戲子真係去到災区，人家還得要多分派人手招呼佢哋，人哋啲人手本來不足，仲要应付佢哋真係唔得死！

[ 本帖最後由 CWong 於 2008-5-26 02:38 編輯 ]

Quest

LOL! Agree with lancer on this one....just another useless post (waste of precious internet bandwidth)

siumaibb

欣宜唔去係因為佢廢，佢無人識嗟
你唔好睇小明星晌人心入面個地位，好多人寧願見偶像多過見溫總

shutterbug

鄭欣宜真係成熟咗，做事好有分寸，唔似有啲明星、名导演咁，唔知博乜又話親自出飛机去救災又話要做乜做七，佢哋真係当晒自己係superman，好似乜都得咁，最顶唔順就係个古天乐，地震後头兩日就当咗自己係专业心理治療師，話要去导当地啲学生，嗰啲震民、学生同軍人经历咗今次地震，內心深处受嘅伤唔係普通人可理解，而且徵狀可長達十几二十多年，古生受過咩教育咁巴闭可以导人呢？幸而后期唔知係咪佢有自知之明都唔再聽佢再发up疯，反而有几个呀哥呀姐却話死都要去災区不可，佢哋好心字吓刘翔，人哋打个电話慰问一个受伤災民已经帮咗人哋，若然嗰班戲子真係去到災区，人家還得要多分派人手招呼佢哋，人哋啲人手本來不足，仲要应付佢哋真係唔得死！

How much education does it require to do counselling?  Most of the time it's not the counselling technique that can heal their broken hearts, it's the love, care and support that you give them.  How many counselling courses did your love ones take to counsel you when you had difficulties?  Simply give them a hug and pad on the back is a big support already!  Of course, if you're good with words/counselling, it's even better.

zoids

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-5-26 11:14 發表

How much education does it require to do counselling?  Most of the time it's not the counselling technique that can heal their broken hearts, it's the love, care and support that you give them.  How  ...

I think comforting or sympathizing might be the word you were trying to use then.

Counselling imo requires some sort of training.

shutterbug

原帖由 zoids 於 2008-5-26 11:27 發表


I think comforting or sympathizing might be the word you were trying to use then.

Counselling imo requires some sort of training.

What I was trying to say is that those people may need more support and love, than so called "counselling".

shutterbug

here's a summary of what diaster counselling is

http://www.nbcc.org/extras/pdfs/disastercounselingskills1.pdf

To me, this is nothing more than rational guidances, well, if that person can still think rationally...  It gives them no power from the inside to overcome their situations!

Some researchers even said that it might not be a good idea to do disaster counselling too soon.

大C姐

有錢出錢有力出力﹐呢個係社會/ECON最基本既theory。

一班明星姐姐仔(關菊英果渣)去到係咪真係落手落腳先﹖定係去了解災情﹖我洗鬼你去了解咩﹐我覺得真係有心做義工係好﹐但係去到做場大龍鳳返黎滴兩滴眼淚未免太扇情。

-- 有自知之名既大C姐

CWong

原帖由 siumaibb 於 26/5/2008 09:53 發表
欣宜唔去係因為佢廢，佢無人識嗟
你唔好睇小明星晌人心入面個地位，好多人寧願見偶像多過見溫總

家陣心愛嘅人又死咗，家园都冇咗，見班明星仔有屁用，小小明星晌人心入面個地位比得上自己个娘、自已个仔？見溫總有救兵，見偶像得檸檬，救兵到都尚且能幫手揾翻自己嘅親人，緊係見温總好過啦！明星.....啲災民每晚望住个天都见到大把，佢地好普通咋！