"I just feel because me and my parents have such a different view and different life styles
it would be better off if we are not living in the same house"
Yes, although you guys did sit down and talk ...
qqmaro 發表於 2009-10-15 12:22
it's not really just an assumption...
because I do enjoy being home alone a lot without my family disturbing me
and I never really enjoyed the time I spent with them...my house is a place full of noise and nonsense.......sigh
"I just feel because me and my parents have such a different view and different life styles
it would be better off if we are not living in the same house"
Yes, although you guys did sit down and talk about the problem before, and see no changed. You can’t assume things will be better without you.
You moving out and thinking it will make the situation better might be your own assumption. You might want to sit down and talk again about “moving out”, since moving out is a big decision
you should talk to 小叻, I think she got problems with her family but now their relationship is getting better. She might be able to give you some advices.
sometimes escaping is not the best or onl ...
siumaibb 發表於 2009-10-15 10:32
actually my grandparents were trying to talk to them too
but their attitude is like "That's the way it is. We will not change"
so I don't think any other advice would help la......
there were many fights before, and we did sit down and talk
years and years later, nothing has been changed at all. In fact, I think it's worsen too
I just feel because me and my parents have such a different view and different life styles
it would be better off if we are not living in the same house
sigh, I know too ga.....
but I really have no choice lor
my parents and I have been having too many problems for the last decade
I think it's really better off for me to leave the house....sigh
嘉嘉 發表於 2009-10-14 20:30
you should talk to 小叻, I think she got problems with her family but now their relationship is getting better. She might be able to give you some advices.
sometimes escaping is not the best or only solution.
sigh, I know too ga.....
but I really have no choice lor
my parents and I have been having too many problems for the last decade
I think it's really better off for me to leave the house....sigh
嘉嘉 發表於 2009-10-14 21:30
No parents want to see their children leaving them without the ability to live independently.
If you are the only child, think it over.
I think it is kinda hard to look for part time admin jobs, maybe you can also try part time receptionist. And depends on how flexible your hours are, since you are already working a 40 hours full time job.
發表於 2009-10-14 12:21
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