Sometimes I feel like I cannot communicate with my wife too. In that case, you need to think different ways to get your idea to your gf such as you might seek third person to speak for you; the person your wife would listen too. For me, the future teller once I visited did the job for me and my wife changed that bad habit.
I think it is not the matter of who is smarter loh...
My point is, we should be treating each other equally. We should be taking care of each other mah...
I appreciate what he has done for me, and I hope that him could also show his appreciation mah...
Sigh... for some reason my bf gave me an impression that he thinks that I "無street smart, 又懶" do not how to take care of myself and need to find a proper job.
I dunno how ...
meowmeowmeow 發表於 2009-10-17 14:35
You commented: "甘一係你比D耐性教她囉﹐唔明講到明喇。。。或者叫她去學D野充實下喇。。。
我識得一個人﹐他本身教育水平好高﹐係專業人士﹐娶的太太也是咩都唔識兼唔肯學﹐又自大好認叻﹐但倆人甘樣又過左大半世﹐而家兩個都 70-80 歲了。。。唔係話容忍唔到﹐但男的一定要好有耐性﹐同埋忍受到太太不明白自己的寂寞感囉。。。
你橫掂未結婚仲有得選擇﹐最好諗清諗楚D﹐有D女人真係又唔識野﹐又唔肯學﹐又懶惰﹐又溝通唔到﹐這樣就慘囉。。。"
Weren't you acting as a professional counselor? I was only asking a question instead.
三年後嘅我,識打扮,事業心非常重,上進,但身邊個個已經唔係佢!當一個所謂花瓶唔再係花瓶時, ...
Nam 發表於 2009-10-16 23:50
thats's so true neh...
Sigh... for some reason my bf gave me an impression that he thinks that I "無street smart, 又懶" do not how to take care of myself and need to find a proper job.
I dunno how I am not working a proper job, and not able to take care of myself loh...
My mom said it is good that a guy think that way, cuz he will take care of you and think about you more.
I understand that guys tenses to like to take care of "weaker" girls.
But seriously, I do not want to be a 100% 花瓶 and i do not consider myself as a 花瓶 loh.