Don't be sad la....Add oil!
As for myself, I waited and waited until my prince charming appeared. I said to myself that I won't get married unless it's him! I persistently waiting for over 6 years after meeting him and kept as being friends until he has "feel", then we dated for another 5. Then, get married. Had lots of roller coaster rides through out the 10 odd years but I am glad my persistence paid off! Am I very very happy? No. We, like normal couples, fight, argue, disagree, etc. but at least, I won't have to chance to think ..."what if I gave up on waiting? what if I married someone else I don't love? What if I have to watch him marrying another woman?..." coz I know that he's the best that I've got! |