good luck then... Indonesia is known as a place for 排華. Hiring security guard is a must, but sometimes, when there are riots, 最怕蟻多螻死象。if you know what I mean.
My piano teacher are Chinese Indonesian and they have to move to HK because of the 排華 thing happened back then.
My gf was born in indonesia. Indonesian is harmless , just like any normal human being.
It's the extremists who lead the uneducated citizens to kill Chinese. They are used for many reasons, for example, politics, government, etc...
My gf had been living in Canada for over 15 years, her parents are Chinese, she has to go back for family business, and she got no choice. She is a possible wife. I have had over 10 GFs before, so I know what you mean.
If I decided to really live there, I seriously will do some military weapon training and have few hand guns , m16, and smoke mask.
The indo riots usually use knives, they don't have guns. But if the soldiers join the riot, then it's different story.
My gf's family has ex military guys as securities at home and drivers.