原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-24 23:25 發表
LOL, little girl. You and your brother sound immature.
But don't worry, you guys are young and things will change as both of you grow up.
im sure i'll see things differently when im older..
its just that its quite hard to tolerate everything all the time..
im pretty sure after im done w/ my degree. im not gonna see them again.
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2008-3-21 20:56 發表
Yes, I agree 有時有D 野真係無得解釋. But 或者係 favoritism, 又或者係重男輕女, 又或者係XXX...... . That mean we are only guessing (including Blue herself)! My point is, go find out the clear answer bef ...
yeah.. i found out long ago that it was due to 重男輕女..
my father's side relative nv liked me because my mother doesnt get along with them and as they said i look like my mom..
as my bro was born, they treated him like the king of the world
and when i was born, my dad nv came to visit because im a "sit boon for".. =_="
even my grandma's dying wish was to get the whole family to help my bro as much as he need on any occasion..
so my mom purposedly buy me more stuff as i was a kid
1 side is that she treats me like a barbie to satisfy her wants as she nv got as a kid
1 side is to go against what my relative wants ( to treat me like crap n ignore me forever)
that makes my bro feel like im taking everything away from him since he "should: get my share as well..
he always bully me as a kid and i thot its no biggie cuz thats wut kids do..
then one day he told me he hated me ever since b/c i "steal" everything from him..
later on, he lied to get me in trouble n get me beaten up by my dad..
if i tried to tell them the truth, they wont trust me anyways..
its not like i didnt want to seek help but as kid , what can u do if ur parents dont trust u and ur bro do that to u..
i was an A student all the time and i was known as the honest person in the family b/c i hate lying..
but at the end, they chose to believe that their son wont be so bad as i said.. so they chose to believe i lied..
so all i can do is keep quiet cuz the more i say, the more punishment i get from "lying"..
after my dad got outta my life, i thot the abusive part of my life ended but then my bro took over..
whenever he gets mad, he smashed everything in the house and mom can only listen to him to get him to stop..
he kept stealing money from me so i got like no allowence and i needed to work to pay for my tutor..
i told mom how he stole from me and she doesnt trust me or she just wants to avoid the problems..
sometimes when i gave money to my mom and all i see is money from my hand to her hand then to his hands....
of cuz i wont continue to give her money if thats the case..
so she claims i make no contribution to the family..oh well..
it just seems like he really believes "elder bro as dad" saying.. and he controls everything..
so whenever he sees sth he doesnt like, he will do whatever it takes to do it his way..
all i can say is that my family sucks and as soon as i can leave, im leaving..
haven't log on to lyk for a while and find this thread.
I am sorry to hear that your brother is abusing you, but please be aware that he has absolutely NO right to. you definitely should seek help.
and like Matt, I think, said, 有個幸福既家唔係必然 and you have good friends to support you which is much better than most people.
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