不以賣肉為恥 只愁衣着寒酸 工作, 名牌

shutterbug

(星島日報    報道)社會消費文化帶動年輕人物質慾望愈來愈強，不惜出賣肉體換取金錢，通過名牌衣着包裝，建立自信、自尊。有社工表示，青年笑貧不笑娼，不以出賣肉身為恥，只為衣着寒酸苦惱。

　　社工：靠名牌增自信

　　小童群益會督導主任黃貴有認為，時下青年對物質需求愈來愈大，設法尋求金錢購買名牌，少女最快捷的方法是出賣肉身，她們認為金錢比自己的身體重要，在色情夜總會、網吧工作及援交等，只是一種交易，各取所需，不介意其他人知道自己在色情夜總會工作或援交，只會介意自己衣着寒酸，並以名牌衣飾提升自信、自尊感。

　　黃指出，難以說現今青少年的性觀念變得開放，因為他們當中有不少人仍保留傳統思想，很多援交少女曾表示很擔心將來長大結婚，丈夫會嫌棄她們的過去。他認為，本港性教育須負很大責任，只教生理改變、如何懷孕等基本生理常識，卻缺乏道德教育。

　　性教育只教生理欠德育

　　他提醒家長應多了解子女平日與人交往情況，留意及觀察子女的衣着用品，是否在不合理經濟情況下擁有，如經常轉換新款手機、擁有多個名牌手袋等，若發現有不妥，應尋求學校社工協助，避免反應過分激烈及產生誤會。記者 邵燕霞


【明報專訊】「金融海嘯令年輕人更難搵工，有些人為『搵快錢』，把持不定就會行錯路。」香港遊樂場協會    油尖旺區青少年外展社工李德惠指出，每逢長假期前，都會有較多少女賣淫搵快錢。她表示，現時經濟轉壞的影響尚未完全浮現，未能評估最差狀况，「我所認識的青年當中，有些已被裁掉，好工難尋，社工會盡量幫助他們找新僱主，最重要是他們懂得衡量輕重，不要『入錯行』」。

初拒性交易 多難敵利誘

李德惠指出，很多少女原本是想找「正經」工作，但卻被騙加入黃色行業，「有些夜場以招聘『寵物店職員、酒樓侍應或售貨員』作幌子，高薪吸引少女應徵，然後利誘對方轉到夜總會工作」。她指出，夜店僱主往往把「妓女」的定義縮窄至「收錢上牀」，但陪酒小組則是「熱情侍應」，不少人最初拒絕與客人性交，但看着別人收入高，很容易會把持不住放開防線，最終成為歡場中人。

她勸籲少女求職時要謹慎選擇，不要到夜場林立的大廈應徵，以免受騙。

為數千元與內地人假結婚

除了當陪酒女郎，一些少女亦會透過「援交」活動掙「外快」，李說：「現時社會風氣較開放，有人為了眼前利益，覺得陪對方談天換取禮物或大吃大喝，亦沒什麼不對。部分少女更願意為掙數千元而與內地人假結婚。做社工的，只能盡量糾正她們歪曲了的思想。」更令社工擔心的是，有青少年以「傳銷」方式販毒掙錢，「上層」毒販藉招攬大量「下游」拆家掙錢，令濫毒風氣更盛，她希望警方能落力打擊。


Wearing nice clothes is more important than the body???  What are they thinking?  If they are worried that their future bf/husband will 嫌棄她們, then why are they doing it?  If you're a man, will you care if your gf/wife was a 援交女?

[ 本帖最後由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-6 21:42 編輯 ]

kisstherain

shutterbug, I have that book if you want to read it.

mcjohnjohn

原帖由 Littleprince 於 2008-12-8 12:36 發表

what about 豬頭肉﹖

小王妹, 人地話明係豬頭骨, 應該唔會有好多肉啦~

Littleprince

原帖由 pigheadbone 於 2008-12-7 21:03 發表
too bad 我無肉可賣

what about 豬頭肉﹖

pigheadbone

too bad 我無肉可賣

快樂牛郎

The Nun's Litany
By The Magnetic Fields

I want to be a playboy's bunny
I'd do whatever they asked me to
I'd meet people with lots of money
and they would love me
like I loved you

I want to be a topless waitress
I want my mother to shed one tear
I'd throw away this old sedate dress
slip into something a tad more sheer

I want to be an artists' model
An odalisque, au naturel
I should be good at spin-the-bottle
while I've still got something
left to sell

I want to be a cobra dancer
with Little Willy between my thighs
I may not find a cure for cancer
but I'll meet plenty of single guys

I want to be a brothel worker
I've always been treated like one
If I could be a back-street lurker
I'd make more money
and have more fun

I want to be a dominatrix
which isn't like me, but I can dream
learn S, and M,
and all those gay tricks
and men will pay me to
make them scream

I want to be a porno starlet
(for that I'll wait till Mama's dead)
I'll see my name in lights of scarlet
and get to spend every day in bed

I want to be a tattooed lady
dedicated, as I am, to art
Characters bold, complex and shady
will write my memoirs
across my heart.

Catpiano

COMEON ..

That is what .. those girls told HYDE ar ma ..

Yeah .. just what they TOLD him ..     not mean true ..  

peter236

原帖由 Hyde 於 2008-12-7 03:40 發表
some girls do it not for the money, but to have a lot of sex....

Comeon, how do you know?

Hyde

some girls do it not for the money, but to have a lot of sex....

Littleprince

我響 DOWNTOWN 圖書館借的﹐你可以去看看。