原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-16 12:58 發表 
Just my opinion, a lot of the China ladies "seem" to be more innocent and less materialistic (at the beginning) due to the fact that they came from a very restrictive country without knowing how the " ...
actually, honger girls are avoiding to look materialistic now, but in fact they are. alot of them will now tell you that they don't need tiffany's anymore. or LV is played out... blah blah blah...
but china girls don't really give care about that materialistic image, especially the poorer one, all they care about is who have money to support them and also their relatives. the more they appear innocent and less materialistic is actually even worst. they will try to milk every penny from you.
my bro told me a lot of stories on how those china girls will start asking their husband/bf that they need money for helping some sick relative in their home village, or some relative owe ppl money, or this uncle's wife's frd's bro's sister in law's son need money to fix his house... so instead of financially supporting the girl, you'll have to support her family back home and also their relatives.
the materialistic ones (those that actually use REAL stuff) are usually already quite rich. but they are usually expecting expensive gifts... also, the richer china girls are actually more sweet and innocent in heart. since they are treated as a princess all the time.
buying gifts is a lot better then solving problems for the girl's relative.
for the rich one, you also have to beware of her family background. any rich local china ppl are not average ppl. for the china parents, they treasure their children like crazy. they will risk EVERYTHING to protect them, including their life, so money to them is not even as a priority as their children. you have to watch out if they are government officials, since they are rich, they probably have a lot of power. if the parents don't like you, then you are screwed. they can literally get rid of you and everything you have with one finger. if her parents are rich as a businessmen, these ppl also know a lot of ppl in power. otherwise they have no way to become rich doing business in china. then there are the rich parents that operate underground activities... i don't need to explain why they are dangerous. the ones that suddenly became rich, these are the most uncivilized ones, and their demands can be outrageous.
anyways, good luck, there are over 600 million girls in china, i'm sure there is always a good one somewhere. |
發表於 2008-12-15 17:41
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