我的野蠻女友/男友

benyaoguai

have you been with someone with violent tendency? @.@
how violent ?
how did you deal with it?
how long before you break up with the person? :p

benyaoguai

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2009-2-26 09:00 AM 發表

I have not been through it quite yet - I am still going through it.
My stream of conciousness constantly alerts me, and it is the catch 22 where you are torned between "life" and "love". At the end,  ...

well~ what's life without love?
but what's love with abuse? have you thought about that?
if it's love? why would it be toture?
of it's toture.. isn't it time to let go?

benyaoguai

原帖由 giginium 於 2009-2-25 10:49 PM 發表


google battered women syndrome and you'll get some information on what classifies as this syndrome, as well as what women in this situation do and think.

i have done research~ but i haven't talked to anybody who's been through that.. @.@.. it's different~
i tend to just take online / book info as generalization~
unless it's a very detail study XD.. but.. who has the time to read those.. :p

benyaoguai

原帖由 pepsis2 於 2009-2-27 02:39 PM 發表
In my definition, 我的野蠻女友/男友 is like what's in the korean movie 我的野蠻女友... hitting for fun but not abusing or beating... is more like playing & flirting....

it's a cuter and less serious title for this topic i guess XD

pepsis2

In my definition, 我的野蠻女友/男友 is like what's in the korean movie 我的野蠻女友... hitting for fun but not abusing or beating... is more like playing & flirting....

myversa

"What is life without the one you still love?"

The common saying would be "you can still find a better one, one who would treasure you."

Personally I am against "men hitting women" things.  I will never hit my wife in any way.  I do not even verbally assault my wife in any way neither.  People being together should treasure each other.

Yes, we do have argument from time to time but we just argue, nothing more.  Controlling temper is very important.

原帖由 benyaoguai 於 2009-2-25 23:20 發表


i know~ i have researched on things like that for a project
but since you've been through it~ did you help yourself?
and what kinda things were going through ur mind if you did or didn't go get hel ...

I have not been through it quite yet - I am still going through it.
My stream of conciousness constantly alerts me, and it is the catch 22 where you are torned between "life" and "love". At the end, you will just ask yourself this question: "What is life without the one you still love?". And that's when you duel your physical tolerence against your mental tolerence.

giginium

原帖由 benyaoguai 於 2009-2-25 23:20 發表


i know~ i have researched on things like that for a project
but since you've been through it~ did you help yourself?
and what kinda things were going through ur mind if you did or didn't go get hel ...

google battered women syndrome and you'll get some information on what classifies as this syndrome, as well as what women in this situation do and think.

benyaoguai

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2009-2-25 05:35 PM 發表
And I should mention that domestic violence is much more common then you can imagine. I have grown up from a violent family, with violent immediate relatives from both sides, and I have seen friends i ...

i know~ i have researched on things like that for a project
but since you've been through it~ did you help yourself?
and what kinda things were going through ur mind if you did or didn't go get help?

Catpiano

Yeah !!

Beat it !  Beat it !  Beat it !