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原帖由 akshea 於 2008-7-18 00:00 發表
you are not alone honey. I am a part time wedding videographer  and I am starting to question on marriage and the whole wedding thingy. You have no idea how many times I am seeing people saying the we ...

Well I believed I'm one of them...speaking so softly with the vow. But not all people are comfortable to speak up in public in ENGLISH too... And the wedding momemt is actually the most anxious/excited moment to speak fluently...so it may be not that people are not serious enough about the wedding vows...it's just the mixed feeling...if you understand what I mean.

Back to topic...I'm realy sorry to hear the situation...Eventhough I am married, I don't believe in the paper = marriage lifetime. Nothing can be life time guarentee now. Wedding to me is a way to get both party commited to TRY settle down and to organize a family (maybe with kids). But things do change. I have seen bad couple fighting each others so I do beleive that in that case divorce could be a better solution.