婚後的家務

chrichri

結左婚既男士們,你地有幫老婆手做家務嗎?
結左婚既女士們,你地都係一腳踢甘做家務嗎?

結婚前老公都有幫手做家務, 但係結左婚後成日要叫好多次先會幫手,
自己做左吾使等, 成日要叫好多次先會做.
以前都吾覺有甘多野要做，而家先知一個婚後既女人都幾忙 ga .
一星期五日返工, 放工make dinner,/ 做家務, 放假更家要做 because of laundry, cleaning up bathroom, kitchen, vaccum and etc.

有時話完叫完都會幫手做家務, 過左幾日米又吾記得.
有時make完dinner, 明明好食又吾鐘意.
來來去去, 不段重複甘話, 最後都係一腳踢做bunbun.
我老公成日都話: "我mut都無做, 都吾知你吾開心d mut"
無論我講幾多次我吾開心因為你 mut都吾, 要我做都係無用.

算啦, 我認命.

ricrick

呢d老公要羅去打把

ricrick

不過佢都係錫你既，佢都吾會呼呼喝喝叫你做，只不過懶姐，你呼喝佢叫佢做咪得law

somewhereintime

結左婚既男士們,你地有幫老婆手做家務嗎?
結左婚既女士們,你地都係一腳踢甘做家務嗎?

結婚前老公都有幫手做家務, 但係結左婚後成日要叫好多次先會幫手,
自己做左吾使等, 成日要叫好多次先會做. ...
chrichri 發表於 2009-5-18 13:57

Well, I do most of the house works except laundry, my wife is very fuzzy and
want it done in certain way

katamari

I think every family is different. But I think your case is very typical

Austin

1# chrichri

I do all the laundaries, the dish washing, cook 2 to 3 meals per week.

Nowaday there are many men willing to share house work.

Ultraman

Not like the olden days, where guys go out for work and gals stay home as "housewives". Nowadays, very likely both husband and wife work for a living or a better living. Sharing house work is very reasonable, and I think guys should have no excuse that "I don't know how to do this and that...". To well communicate with your other half for what you need and what makes you happy and unhappy is also important.

Purpleheart

我唔知你老公做家務係點啦, 不過男人做家務通常都那手唔成世

所以好多時寧願我自己妥妥當當清潔好全部野, 之後舒舒服服看電視啦! 叫佢做, 做得唔好又要幫佢執手尾, 真係自己做好過啦, 係咪?
我自己都係一個禮拜返五日, 同你一樣放完工返黎真係唔想煮架!! 你咪試下 sunday night 煮多少少野, 然後可以 monday and tuesday night 食返囉, 又或者煮o的簡單既小菜, 同時你可以吸下塵清理下雪櫃....etc

不過佢都唔係完全唔駛做, 例如燈膽燒左, 或者琴高琴低擺落/ 去東西就留俾佢做啦  ~ 你老公有冇野做其實係睇你o者~~ 係咪?

布小熊

well... My  bf helped me to vacuum. I am so allergic to dust that I cannot stand vacuuming. But at a certain "break point" (e.g. asked 3 times.. and over 2 weeks) I will do it myself too.
And well he should do dishes after dinner but... that doesn't always happen... And I got so mad about sink with dirty dishes because I just can't cook with a sink like that....
anyway... it's hard...
well we are not married... so guess I shouldn't complain.

tofu

""有時make完dinner, 明明好食又吾鐘意""
do you two like different taste ar?  like one like sweet & another one like sour ar.  

get a maid to work 4hrs/wk will help