本帖最後由 prickly_rose 於 2010-7-31 23:37 編輯
Seriously, I think you should be glad that he actually said "goodbye forever" to you instead of sti ...
Anonymous 發表於 2010-7-31 21:34 
Sigh. You are right, hating someone takes more effort. I've tried hating him this few days because I thought demonizing him would make me forget him faster, but it did not work because I simply couldn't bring myself to hate him. I mean, when I analyze the whole thing as an outsider, what he did was really not that big of a deal. In fact, he is just an ordinary friend who did not reply to my email that's all. I had a friend disappeared on me because (I guess) he knew he would never have a chance since I had no feelings for him, but his disappearance did not affect me at all and I didn't send him any email since because I didn't want lead him on. This situation is actually exactly the same as me and the guy I love, the only difference is my own feelings.
There is actually one thing I didn't tell you guys....yes he said goodbye, but weeks ago, at last, he replied that he'll stay...but then I was the one who disappeared this time because I thought me contacting him back was selfish and was a huge mistake and me leaving him alone would be better for him. If you see the whole thing from his perspective, I might as well look like a player too. So am I really qualified to hate him? I guess no.
Whether he is really a player or not is no longer a problem for me as both will lead to the same outcome.
If he is a player, then there is no point for me to contact him.
If he really loves me, then I shouldn't be contacting him cuz that's selfish and will make things hard for him. |
匿名 發表於 2010-7-31 21:34
