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當然呢個係普遍西人作風啦，但係我覺得destination wedding係俾啲稍爲有錢嘅人玩囉。如果你結婚要製 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-10-19 02:15 PM

I am not sure if you are referring to here or HK then.
Destination wedding here isn't really for the rich rich. Other than family, the couple usually only expect their BEST friends who would enjoy being there for their special day. And don't mind spending money and vacation for this event. Thus most likely there will be just a handful of guests. (10? 20 is consider big)

fibbi

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    really?? bridesmaid paid for their own dress??
Hm...I paid for the dress...since I only have one so it's ok...

Yeah...I wasn't into destination wedding actually...I would prefer more friends able to celebrate with me but people may not be able to do that because of the cost involved.

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    really?? bridesmaid paid for their own dress??
Hm...I paid for the dress...since ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-19 02:32 PM

yeap! bridesmaids are supposed to pay for their own. But a lot of Chinese brides rent their gown and they got packages to rent bridesmaids dresses as well. But traditionally, bridesmaid do expect to pay for a dress that they may not love (they should at least not hate it) and will only wear once. I don't think that's the HK way. LOL
i.e. that's why I said destination wedding isn't really for everyone.
Part of the hidden meaning for it is to have a smaller group that can make it there specially for the new couple!
Deal to budget and lack of vacation planning (I got notified right AFTER my 3 weeks Italy trip!), I had to say to no to a very good friend's wedding in New Zealand. Thinking back, I wished I had just do credit line and take no pay leave to go their wedding!

chunsh

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    咁我覺得喺呢邊，有啲父母啲英文唔係咁好，好多時都係要個仔女幫手deal with你講嗰啲問 ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-15 11:30

"helping to deal with" is completely different from "actively handling/resolving issues"

chunsh

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   我相信如果係一個體貼，明白事理嘅老公唔會有咁嘅"dead fish" comment囉。

And for me  ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-16 11:22

明白事理嘅老公 still a man, and a man has his needs. It is so called "by-design".

fibbi

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    but as the daughter/sons are involved in dealing with the issues, they won't be completely ignorant about the process...or what to do...I guess.

chunsh

健康院有本書仔有教的. 有講三個月前可以用乜野姿勢, 三至六個月又乜野姿勢, 六至八個月有乜野姿勢. 當然, ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2012-10-16 17:56

actually, a normal man should have no sexual desire to women that are like the last month of pregnancy........

fibbi

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   Maybe just me...I will actually feel bad if I have destination wedding and need to ask my friend to pay for the cost of flight+hotel and also people need to use up their vacation on top of that.
If I have destination wedding I will make sure I cover the cost of flight+hotel for my guest so only minimal "spending" is needed (vacation days).

But of course...I can't afford those so never come to my mind to have destination wedding for myself.

大C姐

I am not sure if you are referring to here or HK then.
Destination wedding here isn't really for  ...
布小熊 發表於 2012-10-19 14:23

    兩邊都有試過，香港就通常係飛去Bali或泰國，果啲就係主人家俾錢。


俾着你，你好朋友結婚，你願意俾幾多錢去一個destination wedding?

唔好忘記，你可能同個朋友好熟，但係你另一半可能識佢老鼠喎。

fibbi

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    Yes man has needs...and the wife from the previous post actually did have sex w/ the man...just maybe she's not as "active" as before so the man made this comment.
I found this is very inconsiderate. It's like if the wife is sick and be less active, the husband should "complain"?

Anyway, during the whole pregnancy, as I read from weddingbell forum, some woman actually has more sexual desire than before...I guess everybody is different.