yes thts true..im just responding to the thread starter saying those ppl are socially inept and are damaged goods...i just think that's not true even they dont hv a bf/gf yet
in a relationship doesn't necessary mean you will learn how to cope with people of the other gender. there's still lots of couples who is so selfish to their other half or even have domestic violence involved. a lot of those who hasn't dated in their 20's is only coz they haven't met the significant other half yet and they are just 唔為拍拖而拍拖. it's not coz they can't socialize with the others. of course, 宅男宅女例外.
I am in my 20s and I did not meet my bf until beginning of this year
Generally speaking, I don't think never dated before has anything to do with having trouble communicating with the opposite sex
in a relationship doesn't necessary mean you will learn how to cope with people of the other gender. there's still lots of couples who is so selfish to their other half or even have domestic violence involved.
That's true, but being in a relationship gives you an exposure to the experience. If you don't have the chance at all, then there is zero experience.
From a biological point of view, someone in their 20s should/would have an interest to the opposite sex and be inclined to have a relationship. I guess what is more alarming is that some ppl can be in their 20s and have zero desire and be totally apathetic to even being in a relationship.
發表於 2010-8-13 08:10
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