slamdunk6

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-28 21:35 發表
if the relationship doesn't have any flaws, then you can't budge in even if you're brave enough. if the girl/guy in the relationship has enough love, then sluts & man-whores will not be able to get on ...

呢個世界邊有couple無問題架，有問題唔代表就有藉口去接受第三者加入

Alcoholic

原帖由 slamdunk6 於 2008-3-29 01:12 AM 發表


呢個世界邊有couple無問題架，有問題唔代表就有藉口去接受第三者加入

true.
but people still accept the 第三者. break ups/hook ups don't need a reason, some might give a reason, but they can also choose to use an excuse. that's how this world runs.

satsuki

for文章： 會試o下爭取。唔得既話，想唔“犧牲and退出”都唔得啦~

for ur question:
我想知道男生們的想法.... （sorry我不是男生btw）
如果你地鐘意左個女仔但佢已經有男朋友了~~ 你地會放棄還是繼續鼓起勇氣愛她 / 追求她??

90%唔會: coz 你追到，都驚第時其他人可以追o左去; "追得到都未必好"吖嘛
10%會:  睇情況啦

Teacup

I am like the guy in this situation,
and my boy friend (ex) who is still living with me is the girl in the story,

..he told me ..he found someone that he never felt like this before...he never thought about marrying me, not that far, but he told me he wanted to marry her already after meeting her once...

it hurts a lot, and it is still hurting, so what can i do?
I've spent 3 yrs with him (2 yrs living together),

But without this happened, I never realized what love really is.
I've been having so much suffering, which enlightened me that I was just some selfish girl who wanted to simply 'find someone who makes me happy', instead of knowing what love is, is to give.

He leaving me, makes me clear that of something that I wasn't sure, is love, what love is.
My "Being" side finally awake and learn to love him, the people around, the world.
I truly hope the best for him, and hope he will be happy.

My "Human" side which consists of my ego acts up from time to time and curse the girl and him, I just can't help it. This transition is really hard.

After all, I just wanna say, if we really understand what love is, we will let go.

If you love him (her), let him have love (her).

Loving someone and being with someone is always two different things...



It would be nice, if I have friends can understand me and talk to me, but too bad,
they are all about cars, investments, fashion, TVs

and my only soul mate, him,  is leaving me... the feeling of loneliness and emptiness is killing me softly... I need someone to talk to, but I don't know where that person is...

[ 本帖最後由 Teacup 於 2008-3-30 14:22 編輯 ]

chihiro

原帖由 Teacup 於 2008-3-30 14:13 發表
I am like the guy in this situation,
and my boy friend (ex) who is still living with me is the girl in the story,

..he told me ..he found someone that he never felt like this before...he never thoug ...

Teacup, time will smooth out your breaking heart.  I was in the same situation as you.  I've been with him for almost 10 years, then he has affair couple months ago.  I really really love him, but the longer the triangle relationship goes, the more I got hurt.  Instead of hurting all three of us, I decided to let go.  Let him free, thats the way I convert my love to him now.  If thats the girl for him, I would be very happy for him.  Now, I keep praying for him everyday and wish that he can be happy all the time.

Guy

放手等於 freedom / new life

GAClone

i think that in this case, most people (or HK-ers) will ultimately leave the relationship just b/c   him or her think it's the best for the situation.

but in the scenario, if the girl WANTS her bf to try harder just to keep her, then she is just testing his love for her...which i think is quite BS...