LOK

如果你唔係精神有問題, 以為自己好有錢, 再周圍吋人. 你應該會搵到朋友.

Alcoholic

Twin,
i'm talking about this generally...

i used to be an out cast
thus, i tried to change & be out going

but either way, i concluded that it won't make you happy unless you're being your true self and be whatever you feel like at that moment.

i think that as long as you don't have an attitude or communication problems with lack of manners & respect, you are fine the way you are.

the point that i'm trying to make is that: you can't satisfied people. be yourself, and your true compatible friends will eventually come into your life and make a good strong relationship where differences are appreciated & accepted.

to me Twin, you have a very good heart & a kind personality. as i gotten to know you, i realize that you're more shy and less brave than i anticipated from knowing you from your posts you treat your friends real, with heart, and knows how to appreciate/treasure your friends for each kind deed & happy moments. honestly, just by looking at you, you nowhere look b!tchy/cocky at all. being with you is comfortable, & makes me feel secure speaking my private thoughts to share with you. i love you lots!

布小熊

但女生嘛~~ 我真係唔知點樣可以同女仔相處~ 我識的女仔都係小器~ 愛搞小圈子~  愛講人是非~ 妒忌心重......唔通要自己變到佢地一樣先做到朋友?

Well... If all the female around you are like that... then you don't have to force yourself to be their friends.
BUT... if you think ALL girls are like that... may be you have some adjustment to make about your attitude.
I don't do a lot of girlie things...e.g. I don't like to go to bathroom as a group with my female friends (I don't understand why they like to...), don't really like shopping for clothes...etc, ... but I still have female friends.
It's more about "夾唔夾".

utopia

Well, I guess I know what's my problem is and trying to address it slowly. I guess I'm not shy but defensive in front of girls? It's just my personality is very straightforward and not a calculating person. Things to me doesn't matters at all, people would expect a lot. Things that I won't put it in my hear, people would remember it until they die. Especially, after few betrayals from girls, (real ones), I become very defensive in front of girls..and very careful on what I speak.... I only open my heart to girls that I trust completely, for instance, my twin So most of the time, I'm very quiet in a group ....

Brave and outgoing? hahaha, that's something I never able to accomplish...I'm not brave but I'm strong deep down in my heart. Being strong, doesn't mean I won't cry but I can quickly stand up and move forward after failure.


Twin,

Heheheee, thank you for your comments on me lol.
I love you lots too.., that's what I always tell caveman.
I understand your good and bad but overall, I still love your goods more than bad kakakaka.

SAZABI

Utopis, I don't konw why you want to thank alcol for the comment...

"i realize that you're more shy and less brave than i anticipated from knowing you from your posts "
aka
"you sound like a bitch on the forum"

wahhahahha~  (run and hide now)

SAZABI

原帖由 LOK 於 2008-4-16 10:26 發表
如果你唔係精神有問題, 以為自己好有錢, 再周圍吋人. 你應該會搵到朋友.

and won't be banned on any forum

Alcoholic

原帖由 utopia 於 2008-4-16 11:56 AM 發表
I understand your good and bad but overall, I still love your goods more than bad kakakaka.

我知道我自己好曳

utopia

Sazabi,

Ever heard of people who always hold their anger, eventually will burst the limited and gone crazy?

Yui

To me, I maintain relationships including friendships with multi-personalities, I have different ways to deal with different people. I could be playful & talkative with one group of friends, quiet and serious with another.

I know deep down I am not fake, it is the same me, but I try to apply different people skills when facing dynamics to maintain the chemistry or "sparkle".

SAZABI

原帖由 utopia 於 2008-4-16 12:20 發表
Sazabi,

Ever heard of people who always hold their anger, eventually will burst the limited and gone crazy?

err... U or the crazy rich guy?