if you need to "sheung tai", you mind as well should lock yourself up in the tiny crack next to your stove & make yourself comfy there for the rest of yourlife
well i guess the girl in hk now are too materialistic~ they only look up but not look down.. and too much demanding from their bf la.. expected too much? Want to be another 徐子琪?
but once they passed probably around the age of 35 as they are getting old.. not competitive to those young teens.. (around 35 la..) they start to worry.. worry abt the criticism from others...唔想比人寸老姑婆﹐無人要.. so lower their standards?