siumaibb

Family debt? debt is under his name or with your mom?

siumaibb

原帖由 Nam 於 2009-2-12 12:31 發表
So my bf wire back the $$ back to his dad via his "ai ya sister"...
and never pick up his dad phone again....

good, 一開頭就唔應該問佢要, your bf should study hard, get a good life and make his dad SHAME.

B仔

近排我都聽問一單個老豆又係咁仆街。。。。個男人搭上洗頭妹，棄妻棄子，仲同個老婆講屋企有空房，叫個洗頭妹搬去一齊住。。。

小叻

The problem is..my mom..she is soft hearted!! and she keeps thinking dad will stay with her later.. so she decided to suicide and keep the father!! but it's won't work.. i told her many many many timessssssssssss!!!

I kinda get what that jerks want.. he just wants to live and stay free...which i told my mom this is impossible as she cannot survive with the huge debts!! also he will just come back for more money when he creates another debts!!

That jerks has no sense of responsibilities and cannot foreseen any consequences. my mom told me that the reason why we move to Canada is not for our education. it is my FXXKing dad owes the bank 100k (HKD$)and need to sell the house and repay it.. and he made up a reason to sell the house is "move to CANADA" for our education.. wtf

so they clear up the debts.. and regain all the debts in CANADA again!! He doesn't know how to manage his money!! and he told me not seek lawyer or govt support becoz.. it's not going to help the kids.. as they will know my mom suicide and take will be taken away by 兒童廳﹗

Nam

原帖由 siumaibb 於 2009-2-12 12:37 發表


good, 一開頭就唔應該問佢要, your bf should study hard, get a good life and make his dad SHAME.

He did study hard and pay for his tuition.
He and I just got so mad one day when we heard about his dad from his uncle.
And he was closed to finish the education. So I suggested him to call his dad.

I just think, we shouldn't listen to one side story. Perhaps, his dad has his reason or he wants to pay and be responsible for the family now.  Who know?

Then.........I regret to convince him to call his dad because ..... now, we know as a fact that his dad is an a$$.

Oh, and all the $$$ he took away was not HIS $$$.  His mom is the one who make most of the $$$.........

小叻

原帖由 B仔 於 12-2-2009 11:43 發表
近排我都聽問一單個老豆又係咁仆街。。。。個男人搭上洗頭妹，棄妻棄子，仲同個老婆講屋企有空房，叫個洗頭妹搬去一齊住。。。

叫條友去死啦﹗ 係佢老婆一隻腳踢佢出去﹗唔羅鏹水淋佢算偷笑﹗

小叻

原帖由 siumaibb 於 12-2-2009 11:34 發表
Family debt? debt is under his name or with your mom?

debts..most of them my mom credit cards i think.. or maybe join account.. not too sure.. those are the debts from line of credit

Nam

原帖由 B仔 於 2009-2-12 12:43 發表
近排我都聽問一單個老豆又係咁仆街。。。。個男人搭上洗頭妹，棄妻棄子，仲同個老婆講屋企有空房，叫個洗頭妹搬去一齊住。。。

Not neccessary a young woman gei...

I know a friend's mom ... hook up with a married man.
She moved to Toronoto to live with "his wife" and "his familiy"....
and "the wife" just keep silent.... .

These a$$hole men are very common...
Almost most ofmy friend dad are irresponsible.. or done similar things...

小叻

原帖由 Nam 於 12-2-2009 11:52 發表


He did study hard and pay for his tuition.
He and I just got so mad one day when we heard about his dad from his uncle.
And he was closed to finish the education. So I suggested him to call his da ...

It's glad that ur bf is a good person.. and support his mom.. while hard work studying

Nam

That's why woman should remain financial independent and also has her own career.  Not just a normal career but a succesful one.

Imagine one day, your husband leave you and debt.  If you make enough money, you won't suffer too much,eh?