吳孟達

If you guys get married....will he do the same thing to you?
Marriage is a long term commitment.
Ask yourself, do you want to live with him in the rest of your life.
You will be the only one to face all problems. You can not change a person. But you can have your own choices.

You really love him or just want to get marry because of the age, or just want to have kids because of the age....you are the only one who have all the answers.

chunsh

你而家知道有問題好過你29歲個陣先知
佢愛唔愛你﹐其他人唔知﹐但其實你可能已經心中有數
自己想清楚﹐如果你認為佢仲愛你既﹐你應該應真同佢講清楚。but otherwise....u
need to do something wise....

but dont just think the negative side, 男人既野﹐拍左拖甘多年無可能仲好似
可以岩岩識你個陣甘sweet同浪漫﹐講真﹐我估你都無可能好似岩岩同佢together個
陣o甘溫柔啦。
Anyways﹐communicate多o的啦

ricrick

同意shock28的做法，飛起佢一排，同時開放市場
女人青春真係好快冇
到你三十歲先散，到時候無人要了
都係為自己著想好d，如果你拍過幾次拖，失過幾次戀，你應該知道每一段感情，對你一生其實是很小很小的一部份
只不過是當局者迷

goldie

匿名 are you better now?
no more fighting?

we were fighting yesterday...
he told me he doesnt want to talk about issues because they will never be solvable, and we will just end up fighting and i'll be there crying and ruin our good dating time... i dont know, i dont know if it's asking for too much to talk about things when they go wrong.

i guess if i ignore issues then we are fine. but when discrapencies come up then we are really bad.

i confronted him yesterday about the no hug/kiss/hold hands things. he admitted that he is more冷淡to me recently because he is really tired and busy and he said it will be better once he graduates in june. is that really true that guys tend to draw back when they are stressed out at work and school?

ricrick

the answer is NO. you can ask all the 愛妻人士 on lyk about what they think
there must be some secrets in his heart that he doesn't want to tell. hehe. i am sure
but u don't need to know, that must be something you don't want to hear

MiCo

it'll be better once he graduates? u mean when he starts looking for work with this economy, it'll be less stressful? ....seriously?

even if that's true, there's always gonna be stressful factors in life, whether u use them as an excuse or not though is another thing =\

don't let him waste anymore of your time, from what you said, you've given him more than enough chances already ><

goldie

facts are
you really really really love him, but he dosnt committ
you want marriage and kids, but he is struggling over graduation
if you want to save the relationship
may be you should help him figure out WHAT HE WANTS first?

myversa

There is problem in your relationship.  I do not think it will get better when he graduates.  Life will get much tougher when you finish school.  Look, he needs to find a job he likes in an economy like this, and job is not like school.  You can make mistake in your assignment but not in jobs.

If there is an issue, you better to solve right away or the issue will just accumulate and it will become bigger issue.  

I am not your boyfriend so I do not really know what he thinks but for me I would not throw my temper on my wife even if I am very stressful.  That is just not the right thing to do.  Every one has temper but he/she has to learn how to control it.

Do you always try when talking things with him?  Try to reason with him and tell him what you are afraid of and what you expect about the relationship.

My wife and I did have difficult time few times but I always tried to reason with her and asked her to tell me what she expected me to do and we would talk about it.

Communication is the key.  It sounds to me that you have no idea what he is thinking and that's what you are afraid of.

hium

15# Anonymous

佢唔識珍惜你 ---> 一腳踢佢走
Sister, 青春可貴呀。。。
你第日諗返只會覺得自己好傻。