u know what? its the youth and the education level that can cause a late-teen to be that 灰. If am too old or not enough education level to get high paid jobs in hk, I would accept the truth and do some jobs that are in low paid. And I think the reason why that guy feel 灰 is about the feeling of hopeless about the future, not the job.
I have frds in hk who keep taking courses and learning himself about some job skills while working at the same time and still can earn a stable jobs.
sometimes, talking is always easier than doing. I dont think 囉綜緩 is the best solution for that guy in the long run, but I wish you can be more considering before blaming others live without backbone