小叻

好多謝你地既支持... 琴晚因為太唔開心...上黎發泄下...

由於我唔係太識得點樣處理家裡既事... 又唔係特別識得解決問題...往往我都會選擇逃避...我超唔想俾男友既父母見到我屋企搞成甘...雖然佢地已經知道我屋企唔係甘好...男友亦不斷話佢爹D媽咪唔介意....但自己心入面唔係好舒服...早知就唔擺酒...求求其其簽張紙就算啦...依家好似放左過計時炸彈甘... 唔知幾時會爆... 我完全唔知點安排結婚既野了... 究竟當晚有老豆定無老豆? 要預位俾佢D朋友定唔預....之前老豆又要求多多...又要依樣個樣..依家好似玩緊我甘...灰爆...

B仔

11# 小叻
你唔可以避！越避越衰點算喎？
男朋友屋企知D唔緊要，冇辦法，仲知知得越少越好。
你唔可以講唔擺酒架～ 擺酒唔係只係你的麻煩屋企嘅事，係關呼你親家風光娶媳婦！ 同埋好多上一代，口講冇所謂，其實就算小小的擺酒，都叫係有頭有面丫～～

我覺得，要籌劃一個有幾會麻煩嘅婚禮要策劃得全面D。大不了的話，整兩個PLAN。一個PLAN／SCHEDULE預你老豆，一個唔預。有備好過到時你拿手唔成世！ 你做得好好睇睇，第時你搬去同HUNNIE屋企人住會好過好多！辛苦，係值得買個安心架～
你諗諗啦～～

Catpiano

BORN PARENTS is not as big as FEED PARENTS wor ...   

Doesn't matter la..   same thing happened to me wor ..  but my mom and I .. very good bonding ..

Littleprince

好多謝你地既支持... 琴晚因為太唔開心...上黎發泄下...

由於我唔係太識得點樣處理家裡既事... 又唔係特別識得解決問題...往往我都會選擇逃避...我超唔想俾男友既父母見到我屋企搞成甘...雖然佢地已經知道我屋企唔 ...
小叻 發表於 2009-5-11 10:26

你可以唔比他父母知﹐但一定要與他分擔﹐因為若你一個人承受實在太辛苦了﹐兩個人有商有量才是上策﹐因為最後你地兩個都係家人﹐有D野你隱瞞不到的﹐倒不如早點讓他知道更好﹐有他的支持你才能走下去。。。

要知道籌備婚禮一定有好多拗繳﹐好多磨擦﹐你地都要有心理準備﹐一起去面對同埋解決﹐這是每個人必需面對的人生階段。。。以我所知﹐無咩人搞婚禮時不是與家人及伴侶係無磨擦的﹐有D搞搞下仲分埋手添。。。但係只要雙方懷著對彼此的愛心﹐對事不對人﹐這樣才能解決事情﹐順利完成這件人生大事。

小叻

我男友琴日全程都陪緊我屋企人....乜都知道晒...佢同我講話我依家咩都做唔到...老豆要走就走..我阻止唔到... 叫我唔好介入...兩夫妻既事等佢地自己搞... 我既衝動性格會將事情搞得仲衰... 搞婚禮既事我完全無同屋企人傾..都唔知可以傾D乜..佢地都無搞過婚禮...我諗住自己搞點叫佢地出席就得... 還掂都唔會真心祝福我架啦~ 覺得個女嫁得好又唔開心... 我男友送我訂婚介子...我既喜悅都無同父母share.. 番屋企實取左隻介子... 儘量低調...有似出街食飯發現..睇得出老豆唔like.. 之後無端端逼媽咪同佢買介子...媽咪唔想晒錢話唔要...老豆就話媽咪唔愛佢...話媽咪心入面有第一個...頂﹗ 我去完影婚紗相..老豆又唔多開心...又無端端逼媽咪走去影番輯婚紗相(又唔係錢多).... 都唔知想點...影完無幾耐又話離婚...依家好好玩呀? 我仲可以同屋企人講D乜?

B仔

15# 小叻 如果你老豆咁唔抵得，係咪應該做返D野似返個男人，好似你嘅好HUNNIE咁，愛妻愛家，做個好榜樣呢。。。

katamari

我男友琴日全程都陪緊我屋企人....乜都知道晒...佢同我講話我依家咩都做唔到...老豆要走就走..我阻止唔到... 叫我唔好介入...兩夫妻既事等佢地自己搞... 我既衝動性格會將事情搞得仲衰... 搞婚禮既事我完全無同屋企 ...
小叻 發表於 2009-5-11 11:26

唔明點解你老豆會因為你隻戒旨唔高興喎？！？！

Littleprince

唔明點解你老豆會因為你隻戒旨唔高興喎？！？！
katamari 發表於 2009-5-11 11:40

嫉妒掛

Littleprince

我男友琴日全程都陪緊我屋企人....乜都知道晒...佢同我講話我依家咩都做唔到...老豆要走就走..我阻止唔到... 叫我唔好介入...兩夫妻既事等佢地自己搞... 我既衝動性格會將事情搞得仲衰... 搞婚禮既事我完全無同屋企 ...
小叻 發表於 2009-5-11 11:26

其實你係咪獨女﹖你亞爸會唔會係那些“吃醋外父症候群”呀﹖

不過點都好﹐你亞爸真係有D心理問題﹐呢D野好似小女人先會做窩

Lik

Girl, I feel for your situation. I do want to remind you of one very important thing though -- your parents' marriage failure is not an excuse for you to escape into a new family of your own. Additionally, be mindful that you do not carry your burning desires of building your own happy family into your up-coming marriage because your marriage with your finance is NOT a cure of your own family's marriage problems. Psychology studies have repeated shown that our past, especially our childhood years, has a profound effect on the things we do, and the things we hope for.

Good luck with your wedding, and good luck with your married life la.

-Lik