xelloss

my gf does have the similar situation as you. that makes me worry...
probably your bf may has the same "worries" as mine...

that is a such dilemma. even worse that your bf doesn't speak chinese, so there is no reason for him to go to HK with you...what a dilemma here.

but as a girl, you may want to stick with the one you love, who can truly take care of you...instead of really be a business type of a woman...

that's what I though.

i'm a girl.... and i don't even know which one to choose...

i have the dilemma of.... sometimes i wanna go back to work for a couple of years~ just to see what it'll be like to work in asia~~ don't w ...
benyaoguai 發表於 2009-7-13 21:38

xelloss

real photography business..

問得出都知你想點：男人要以事業為重，兒女私情應該放埋一邊
有咩大生意搞，有無好路數益下D兄弟先？
ricrick 發表於 2009-7-13 20:02

tiffiant

its hard to say
depending how much money you want to earn
depending how mudh you care the family

ricrick

real photography business..

are u sure? are u having a studio or what? hire me hire me

ani

honestly, with how expensive things are in Vancouver now a days.. both needs to go to work ga lah!!

how do people manage to pay for all the mortgages/debts/loans/bills and save money at the same time?

it's not just a question for guys.
It's even more a problem for girls!! because their biological clock cannot "wait"..

If you don't have kids by a certain age..  it's really no fun being a 高齡產婦............

but personally. I don't really think there's a conflict between the two..
Why can't two people get married & both work towards building a career????

benyaoguai

my gf does have the similar situation as you. that makes me worry...
probably your bf may has the same "worries" as mine...

that is a such dilemma. even worse that your bf doesn't speak chinese, so t ...
xelloss 發表於 2009-7-16 11:03 PM

hmm~ i agree and disagree ....
i agree that i should hold on to the person who loves me and that I love..
but at the same time ... i believe if he loves me~ he can just let me do what i want to do for a couple of years........
don't really think neither of us will cheat or anything like that~ and we can probably make the long D thing work
it's just~ i don't have the hearts to see him suffer... that's all...
even though he says he'd probably be okay with it....

meowmeowmeow

i'm a girl.... and i don't even know which one to choose...

i have the dilemma of.... sometimes i wanna go back to work for a couple of years~ just to see what it'll be like to work in asia~~ don't w ...
benyaoguai 發表於 2009-7-13 21:38

I have the same problem too...

I've worked in HK, and I liked it. Career wise, HK is better, cuz more opportunities.
Dun't get me wrong, I do enjoy my life in Van. It's just that I really wanna go back and develop my career.

My bf probably wont go either, cuz he doesn't really like living in HK. (plus his parents are in Van)

sigh....

tequila

this will really depending on how the couple thinks~ some may think that they will need to have $$ before marriage so they pick career, and this is also the reason why many couples prefer to get marry after they hv get out of school for a couple of years with work exp + earn a little bit of $$

siumaibb

talk to your future wife, maybe she is willing to help you establish your business. In that case, you can take both, win-win situation.