我其实已经拒绝过他很多次好意，但是他是在对我太太太好了，用百分比来表示，我不可能每次都拒绝吧，有时候同一件事我拒绝了一次也不好意思拒绝第二次，然后如果他对我的好是100%，我已经很积极地拒绝，但貌似也只能拒绝了20%-30%

news

if u really want to reject..u should stop seeing and keep contact with him..coz he probably wont give up until u do tht

ricrick

yayayaya，無錯，從非專業臨床心理分析，你以得到一種病，名叫“恨嫁”
恨嫁係一種好常見，多數發生係十八廿二之後，慢慢步入中年的女性身上
恨嫁的人，通常有幾種特征：
1. 人有我有 2. 怕無人要 3. 怕搵吾到 4. 怕嫁吾好 5.感到孤獨 6.沒有安全感 7.想要有穩定的生活 8.有一定的年齡 9.很想有個家
因此，恨嫁的人受到很大的壓力，終日胡思亂想，開始懷疑自己腦袋是否正常
懷疑自己生活是否正常，懷疑自己人與人的關系是否正常
到最後乘受吾到巨大的壓力，因而走上絕路
所以，要醫好恨嫁，唯一的方法就是出家，道入空門，色即是空，空即是色，善哉，善哉，阿門

yayaya

........你叫我啊ricrick哥？

Derek128

........你叫我啊ricrick哥？
yayaya 發表於 2009-7-30 01:17

你要對號入座?

rickrick ya左4野  可能只係rickrick 開口講英文

ricrick

yayayaya，好明顯，我係講英文....

blueberry

人類在對異性有意思的時候﹐多數都會對喜歡的對象很好﹐熱情地大獻慇懃﹐有時又真係幾難拒絕。

不過﹐如果你對這位異性一點意思都沒有﹐就真的要狠下心拒絕對方對你那麼好了。因為當對方發覺到做那麼多事情都不能打動你﹐但你又接受對方的好意﹐有時很可能由「恨」(渴望) 變「恨」(憎恨)﹐會覺得你在拿著數﹐利用佢。

除非佢對你既好﹐係出自朋友之意。我建議你最好還是同佢講清楚﹐又或者善意地拒絕對方的好意。(例如拒絕但 謝謝對方的好意)

Quest

23yrs old is still somewhat young so I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. Bowing to public/peer pressure only to realise that the mate you've been longing for turned out not like what you wanted and that would make you even more miserable (think about this: got married @ 23, turned out that he/she not the one in a few year's time and then divorced, now you start all over again and somehow bear the scars/burden of your first marriage....)

My love life started late and I got married in my 30s...been happy together for 7+ yrs.

Think about it.

Q-TD
p.s. don't let your hormonal surge fool you ....

ppp

你有玩嘅想法, 即係你未ready同嗰個人長久, 仲乜要迫自己﹖