Catpiano

P.S.  

I should say ..   GF will care about romantic .. but not WIFE!! ..

SO .. it is basically USELESS talk about ROMANTIC .. yeah. ..  a man may be romantic .. in order to get a gf . (then wife) but afterall ..   

Alcoholic

Catpiano:
Lemme answer your question:
Wives are less romantic because when they were still a "gf" & do all those sweet things for the "bfs", the guys are too concerned about their cell phones, ps3, pc, cars, buddies, toys & gadgets to care~

now that we are a wife, we only care about our responsibilities to you, such as cooking, chores etc. even if we tried to do something romantic, you guys are "too tired from work" to even notice or care.

so we just gave up & put a strike onto romance

yungfourfour

原帖由 Catpiano 於 2008-1-4 09:25 發表
Well .. doesn't matter la..

No matter how romantic men are .. women don't care romantic or not mah ..  women just concern about their computer .. game ..   Wii ..  TV ..  

So .. why only MEN are ro ...

may be some men are romantic because they are still chasing girls but women are not as romantic because they... "grew up"? haha
in my opinion I still think guys are more concern about winning series, TV and stuff more then women,

Like, a man would say woman is not romantic because they choose to wash dishes and blame the guy while the guy just want his women to sit there and watch TV with him, it seldom happens the other way.
celeb
Anyways.... there's a guy who to bring his girl to celebrate birthday and cut b-day cake there.
he always order 2 drinks at dinner, let his girl try and pick first
ooooo and he'd "duk" lemon in the lemon tea for girls...

Small stuff, but makes my bone numb

Catpiano

Aiya ..  wife ..   cooking ? no la..  go out to eat ..   washing dishes ? dish washer ..  clean up?   no la..  cleaner will do it ..   

He he .. may be just my case .. my wife is a working woman ...  (we both have to work!  with high living standard in western Canada now .. )

So ..  Romantic ?  sigh ..   not anymore la.. I always want to "Surprise" my wife too..  but ...   leave to those young folks la..  lol

Alcoholic

CatPiano:
well... my hubby helps with dishes
& for the last 2 days i put a strike on cooking cus i'm so sick...

Mr. Lik
i'm sure the sex doesnt stop geh... but probably less frequently as your wedding anniversary goes up~ hahaha.... i can totally imagine that graph~

AmericanBeauty

I am appearently too romantic for my man sometimes. O.o  He is a very practical person.  He thinks that being romantic means taking care of little details in life.  I, on the other hand, like to do romantic little things to keep the relationship fresh.  I think there should be a good balance of romance and particality in order to keep a relationship going over time.  Even though I am not married to my man yet, I would still cook for him and clean up his place for him.  At the same time, we would go out to have dinners together, we would spend quality time talking with each other, and so on.  Don't let life takes away romance!  

myversa

I do not know if I am considered as romantic or not but at least I tried to be even after I got married.

I know my wife from ICQ and I had never been to her home countries, Malaysia.  We talked to each other every morning and every night.  I ened up with thousand of phone cards.

Nevertheless, there was once Lee-Hon having a mini concert in Penang but required some kind of advance pass for people to get in.  She really wanted to go so I, had no other friends nor been to Penang before, tried my best to get her a ticket.  There was no online tickets system.  I managed to grab her a tickets.  She was so happy.

After we got married and she came here, I treated her even better.  She would cook dinner on her off -days and I would wash dishes.  I always try to have romantic dinner with her at home with candle lights.

Her dream is to travel around the world so I am doing that step by steps.  So far, we have gone to Banff, Whistler to Seattle and Portland.  Next stop, I am going to take her to L.V and L.A.  We plan to go to Mexico next year.

I know I will treasure my wife forever.

utopia

Most romantic person would be my caveman. (DAMN, but he is getting not romantic anymore, I have been complaining to him lately. We are too much like guy friend or family lately hahaha... )

1) I told him I never had a proper high school dating scenes since i had LD relationship. I  always want to taste how it feels like........ Halloween night, he drove me to a neighbor hood. I had no idea where he was going but he said "I will give you anything that you deserved but you didn't get, and show you how's it like to date in highschool". He and I just got off work that day. Imagine he was in his suit and I dress like an OL. He asked the mom" Hi, this is my gf and my name is caveman. We never had trick or treat before, do you mind if we follow you to do trick or treat? We won't bother you and we will just stand behind you while you get your candy"

2) My sister-in-law called and yell at me for dumping my ex.Then, after a few days, my best friend called me and said he was very disappointed at me and asked me do I know what the heck am I doing to myself. He totally don't trust caveman and so does my family. I found my true love but....... feel like the whole world was against us. Everyday my eye cried til' it's read and puffy. I cried because receiving no support and left alone in a corner all the sudden. I cried so bad because I felt so guilty for hurting my ex. Then, one night, caveman came pick me up and drove me to science world to take a break. By the ocean, he told me he will be with me no matter what unless I want to go back to my ex because he can never find another girl that can read his mind like me. That night, he asked me what am I craving for food and he will find it for me no matter what. Then he drove around town to find Taco Bell for me. I was touch because I know i can never able to find a person like him again.

3) I was very sick and still have to work late at work. After I get off work, he cooked dinner for me and told me to take a bath. He said "spa bath" can relief the stress and tiredness and he cooked very light dinner for me because he remember I like things that doesn't taste strong and he massaged me too. The dinner that he cooked were nicely decorate...............

4) It was icy at his house and I fell off the stair and hurt myself pretty bad. He blamed himself so bad that he promised to protect me and he did not catch me fast enough.... and he hugged me so tight and kept apologized to me.

5) Our love symbol - 2 pairs of  pooh cel phone accessories. We are not the kind of person who will play with those vending machine. It happened I got my pair (exactly the same) on the island long time ago. He got his pairs in North Vancouver. I'm not sure have you guys play those vending machine before. The "egg" does not come in a pair. You have to be very lucky in order to get 4 identical pooh. Anyways, I always put my pair on the mirror in my car. One day, I went into his room and saw "my pair" in his room. I thought he was teasing me and stole it from my car somehow. He kept saying it's his pair. So he brought "his pair" to my car and take a look. We both went speechless because these 4 pooh are identical........

well...........the list goes on and on .........and a lot happened between us more than these..... Even though he is not as romantic as before but I know he loves me even more and see me as his family. Lately, he asked me can we married in 2010 because that's "when 2 become 1"

Alcoholic

Twin,
so that means i have 2 more years to save up for your huge @$$ 人情? good to know~ then i can start saving now~