like i said earlier if the man has no money he will get no girls too when he gets old.
Davidcopperfeel 發表於 2010-7-16 14:17
I don't quite agree with that. So you mean every woman only want to marry rich guy?
I think in general, woman looks for someone who can be rely on. And one criteria is that the guy should have a job not minimum wage. But even so, if the guy is super nice to the girl, as long as both contribute, I wouldn't say man with minimum wage won't get married. $ is not the biggest issues in relationship la.
According to her story "我，曾經很愛一個人, 用了三年多時間去等，等到最後要結婚了."
Her wish was becoming true but then "等到最後要結婚了，我卻離開了，"
"不是不愛，我愛他，也許，未來的日子，我不會再那麼愛一個人，但是作為一個女人，我做的已經太多，但不被珍惜的時候，我實在無法再消耗青春去等他有一天會珍惜我，"
What i was saying was if the guy Did Not 珍惜和愛她 he didn't have to marry her.
But she didn't cherish the love.
And really if she was "mature enough" to know what she was expecting, then she wouldn't change her mind.
Davidcopperfeel 發表於 16-7-2010 14:08
we can't judge who is right and who is wrong simply based on her reply.. maybe there's something happened and made her decided not to keep the relationship ne~ as an outsider..we do not know what had happened..
For me as a girl.. If a girl decided to break up at the stage of marriage...it must be something that she cannot forgive... she must be very hurt as well...
"""但真的，女人的黃金年齡有限，男人就算四，五十歲，有一個廿多歲的太太都不罕有，但轉過來女人到四五十歲想結婚，就像妄想一樣。世界就是不公平的。"""
so after he passed away, the woman will use his money to buy a young guy. this is a cycle.
i always think 適不適合 is depend on how much you love each other and how much you want to stay together. if you love a person, you will adjust yourself for that person, you will accept everything from that person. and you won't think you are doing too much, because you are enjoying to do it. but at the time you think you are doing too much, probably is the time to leave la.
recently talked to a mad couple, both of them thinks s/he is doing too much for another half and another half is not doing enough. before we summarize how much we did, should we think about how much did s/he contribute.
Well i think you're a little misunderstood here.
According to her story "我， ...
Davidcopperfeel 發表於 2010-7-16 14:08
As I mentioned "我覺得你的用語過於苛刻, considering it is only a feedback for a 4 sentences response。" It is really hard to judge someone/situation by a 4 sentences response. The reason I response to this thread is because seems like that someone is taking this too serious, and responded 偏激咗少少.
Also, "要知道結婚並不總是等於珍惜，因為每個情況都是不一樣的。" I knew Nam's story, that's why I posted the previous comments. Therefore, I won't expect you to totally understand the situation. Plus, guys' point of views might be different from girls.
According to your logic, ("What i was saying was if the guy Did Not 珍惜和愛她 he didn't have to marry her. But she didn't cherish the love.") If she doesn't love and care about the bf, she would not be with him for 3 years la.
I do appreciate your responses, but anyways, 子非余，焉知余之乐。。。。。。
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