ayako

"嫁得好"，而呢三個字， 基本上同經濟能力掛勾。
imvitasoy 發表於 2012-5-27 16:03

如果我為人父母, 人家問我, 你的女婿攢錢不及你女兒多, 你介意嗎?
我毫不介意, 倒會感恩, 因為女兒攢錢比女婿多, 不是女婿不濟事, 是女兒更本事而已.
本來求女婿既要他們人品好又要有能力照顧女兒, 現在少擔心一項, 不是更好嗎?
女兒會攢錢比女婿會攢錢更讓我放心啊.

就算是我自己選丈夫, 經濟能力肯定並非我頭三位最重視的條件...
對, 錢的確很重要, 但我時常覺得, 夠用就可以了.
錢, 誰又會嫌多呢?  當你賺得到很多, 可能你更難停下來...
或因位高權重, 或因人在江湖, 逼於無奈的要賺得更多.

imvitasoy

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    so you're saying if i pretend to be rich, i can get the girls i want?
Ovaltine 發表於 2012-5-27 23:42

may or may not,  but your chance would be greatly enhanced that's 100000% sure.  
Of course,  at a point of time you maybe 比人踢爆，but that's another issue.

imvitasoy

如果我為人父母, 人家問我, 你的女婿攢錢不及你女兒多, 你介意嗎?
我毫不介意, 倒會感恩, 因為女兒攢錢比 ...
ayako 發表於 2012-5-28 00:13

你女兒賺錢比你女婿多，你不介意，這是有可能的。但如果你女兒手停口停，而有兩個男朋友 ，一個普通打工仔， 一個出入有司機，兩個都對你阿女一樣好，阿女兩個都一樣中意，問你意見，我就唔信你會叫阿女揀個窮嘅。最多都係叫阿女自己揸主意，之類的廢up …..

你自己揀老公，經濟能力肯定並非頭三位最重視的條件 <-----  一般而言，原因不外只有三個 : (1）你自己本身有能力，或者你老公本身就夠哂經濟能力，從來無需要你擔心過 (2) 你好細個識你老公，柴娃娃青梅竹馬結婚嗰種  (3) 你的男朋友選擇不多，他是你一生唯一傳奇....   

錢的確很是重要, 但我時常覺得, 夠用就可以了
----你呢句說話，同你以上所說是茅盾的，而"夠用" 兩個字可圈可點，何謂夠用 ？

Ovaltine

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    men love beautiful women, women love money. its like a jungle in civilization. broke men and ugly girls talk on forum on theories about love...how depressing?

imvitasoy

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    men love beautiful women, women love money. its like a jungle in civilization ...
Ovaltine 發表於 2012-5-28 02:32

    唔知你想講咩 ;P
在下成日講一句 :  麻甩佬愛色，與姣婆愛財，同為天性，要問責就要搵天主.
德育管限原始慾念，不外 "好色取之以禮； 愛財求之有道“， 然而天性本就如此。

ayako

imvitasoy: 我其實只係想試著拆解你 "嫁得好"同 "經濟能力" 之間掛的勾....

布小熊

首先，在下羨慕台端世界咁美好,  祝福你一生美滿。
I was pinpointing on your particular comment that " girls are looking for love buddy"
imvitasoy 發表於 2012-5-27 04:03 PM

I never said that. It was Ovaltine.

"而台端可能未見過一些肯煮飯唔肯洗碗，三個月抹一次地 ...既媽媽。"
I have never seen that... My mom, even when she was sick, scrawled out from her sick bed to do any house work she could. I ... sadly have taken up some of that restlessness.

imvitasoy

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(1) Sorry for the confusion.  Yes that line was in Ovaltine's post not yours,  my apology.
(2) "而台端可能未見過一些肯煮飯唔肯洗碗，三個月抹一次地 ...既媽媽。" I have never seen that... My mom, even when she was sick, scrawled out from her sick bed to do any house work she could….
言則台端認為在下發up風生安白做？ That's why I said you are blessed. 上一輩中國婦女優秀傳統，捱更抵夜，家陣都幾難搵到矣。 在下所講"煮飯唔肯洗碗，三個月抹一次地“ 係真人真事，而且已經是濕濕碎者，更離譜的在下都見過，包括兒子半夜發高燒，媽媽因為懶床而不肯(注意，是"不肯"，更正確的說法，是"拒絕") 帶兒子入醫院，要鄰居(在下是也) 代勞; 也 有新世代強國媳婦每天只管吃飯打機塗腳指甲......此類新世代為人妻者為數並不在少，簡直可以用"古靈精怪" 四個字來形容....…

imvitasoy

小小補充: "古靈精怪" 者，用千禧世代語言來講，"騎呢" 是也....

Ovaltine

You can't really blame the girls, it is more profitable for them to wear make-up and polish toe-nails. I always find the beautiful ladies that pertain Confucius values sexy as hell.
as oppose to the CBCs who are very aggressive and demand equality.. ****ing feminists, women with cocks hiding underneath their dress.