He wants to leave you but ng shei duc release, just because the relationship had been so long or you are somewhat a nice girl. It's normal for anyone, girl or guy, it's humanity.
You have to think only one thing, if you still want to be with someone who doesn't love you any more for the rest of your life. No worry about the temper or job or study... All it is, really is the love had been fade away. Ask yourself if you love him or like him now...
I think you need to have a much deeper conversation with him.
A good time would be before you go to sleep....
Simply asking him why you are not doing this and doing that...why are you not like before and blah blah blah is just going to piss him off. This is because you are simply blaming him and telling him that he is doing something wrong when he thinks otherwise.
Just because you think you are being a good girlfriend....doesn't mean he thinks the same. Step back for a moment and ask him what he thinks about the relationship. Ask him if he is happy with how things are and if there is anything he wants to change. Tell him that you just want to chat...you are not looking for an arguement because you notice that he has been stressed/upset/busy lately and you just want to help to make him happier~~~
Somehow recently we seem to be better. He is being a lot more sweet with me lately. I hope it lasts and would not go back.
Anonymous 發表於 2009-4-17 05:14
But....
Checked your previous message, did you guys just fight again?