mcjohnjohn

其實家用呢d 野, 睇下你自己afford 得幾多, 同埋睇下父母需要幾多, 就決定個數目.
如果父母冇錢, 我覺得仔女既好應該比多少少佢地, 因為我覺得有責任養佢地.
如果父母有錢, 我覺得仔女比唔比都得, 因為唔係等你d 錢去開飯, 而比錢亦唔一定代表你好有孝心.

小弟覺得, 最緊要係用心對父母好, 咁就為之very good 喇.

meowmeowmeow

I live with my parents, and I give them half of my salary. Even during the time that I wasn't living with my parents, I gave them... ummm... around 30%... (I started doing this since my first job during highschool (half of whatever I made)

I believe that my parents do not actually want my money, it is just that they want me to feel that there are responsiblities as a human being... There's no free lunch. Obviously my parents "唔係等我d 錢去開飯", and for sure my parents had invested much more on me compare to what I gave them...

"比錢亦唔一定代表你好有孝心." is so true neh... it is the thoughts that count....

ricrick

我想問在坐有無人以經候住老豆老母份家產？

mcjohnjohn

我想問在坐有無人以經候住老豆老母份家產？
ricrick 發表於 2009-7-14 18:08

你想釣邊個member 出黎?

布小熊

我想問在坐有無人以經候住老豆老母份家產？
ricrick 發表於 2009-7-14 03:08 AM

NO! They supported me up to my Bachelor grad. Then I am on my own. no down payment, no gifts (i am the only one in my family who gives gifts!! I just realize that... ). They did pay for my first car but not the cost of gas or to maintain it. So when I got my first job after grad, most of the 1/3 of my pay cheque goes to car and gas ...etc.
Don't expect and don't think they will give me anything.

布小熊

你想釣邊個member 出黎?
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-7-14 03:13 AM

hahahaha good point!

myversa

其實家用呢d 野, 睇下你自己afford 得幾多, 同埋睇下父母需要幾多, 就決定個數目.
如果父母冇錢, 我覺得仔女既好應該比多少少佢地, 因為我覺得有責任養佢地.
如果父母有錢, 我覺得仔女比唔比都得, 因為唔係等你d 錢 ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-7-14 00:07

I totally agree.

shutterbug

For me, I don't care if my kids will give me any money if I can afford my own living.  I just want them to visit me regularly.

J.J.

When I lived with they, I gave them all.
Now, 自顧不下，無俾錢父母.

tobiko

No set amount right now as we are saving for downpayment right now (married and renting right now) I just give them some money here and there and I treat them to dinner on the big days/ holidays.