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咁都要D契乜契物有水先得架~~~

我想知,如果你契D仔女,係咪真係會當親的看待?
如果你有D契媽契爺,係咪真係同你親生父母一樣看待&孝順?

我只係覺得,你要對一個人好,唔需要上契先對那人特別好姐。 ...
B仔 發表於 2010-2-3 12:20

Very true. One of my friends got betrayed by his godparents before.
I think, if people have no kids and adopt orphan as their godchildren, or orphan adopt kid-less people as their godparents, then it makes more sense lor.

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31# Ultraman


契仔 唔同養子
契仔 係多咗對哎也父母
得閑收啲著數啫
養子 你就要供書教學
如果能夠對待佢如同己出 梗係好喇
唉 不過 世事難料

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31# Ultraman


契仔 唔同養子
契仔 係多咗對哎也父母
得閑收啲著數啫
養子 你就要供書教學
如果能夠對待佢如同己出 梗係好喇
唉 不過 世事難料
sheep 發表於 2010-2-3 17:27

I know. What I meant is, if one already has birth parents (still alive) or own children, why there is a need to have godparents or godchildren? Because they think their own parents/children are not good enough? Or as you said, only because of to 收著數?! It's just being greedy and selfish.

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anyone wants to do it with me
you must agree that cwong is my husband
and you should have good relationship with me

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"""咁都要D契乜契物有水先得架"""
you can choose ma, do a financial check sin ma

我想知,如果你契D仔女,係咪真係會當親的看待?
如果你有D契媽契爺,係咪真係同你親生父母一樣看待&孝順?
probably not in our generation, but it is a yes in my parents' generation.  
i know some 契媽契爺 pay 契仔女 d tuition fee(visa student in the state)
or 契仔女 give money to 契媽契爺 when they are old
"""你要對一個人好,唔需要上契先對那人特別好姐"""
that is truth.  but i think in the old days some people to eliminate rumor.  let say a old guy is really good to a young girl, people may say they have special relationship.  but 契爺契女may close someone's mouth.  of course it won't work now la.  to tell the world , they are special, they are my 契仔女, you need to "give face ar"

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