A man that wants to be with you for the rest of his life DOESNT mean he LOVES YOU???
Please enlighten me?????
Maybe he wants to steal your LV bags after marry your ass
If you really LOVE him than first you gotta Adjust yourself to be suitable for him and ACCEPT every part of him.
If you never felt this way than don't bother telling people how much effort you put in.
I feel sick of hearing all these 尊重/珍惜 and you're too self-center by telling everyone how much effort/time you put into your relationship and having a BAD return from your bf. (sounds like he didn't do sh1t for this relationship) girl you're not the only human being on this planet.
If you can feel the pain so does your bf.
Srsly i don't know your story but,
LOVE is nothing like 1+1 is not like that. When you're TRULY LOVE someone you'll never DO YOUR FKING MATH LIKE THIS.
Love is never ask for return. Adjust yourself and Accept Every part of him.
I'm not good at math break up and do what you want but don't sound like an innocence.
I feel sick and tired of hearing a self-center woman telling people how much effort you put in to a relationship but NOTHING ELSE.