Alcoholic

that night, while crying for an hour, i had to trim off the burnt ends lor. aiiiiii

Kaimui et al,

i'll post up the entry here lah with some edit: (entry March 17)
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man.... last nite, cooked pasta 4 dindin. as usual, i cooked xtra so hubby could hv lunch da nx day. hubby ate all da pasta, so der was only sauce left, but no pasta. afta tv & shower, i put turned on da left outter range 2 put a pot of water 2 boil 2 cook more pasta. i lined my entired stove top/back wall wif tin foil, so wen i do my heavy kitchen cleanin, i can just rip off da tin foil, easier to clean, & less grease 2 scrub. as da pot of water was waiting 2 come 2 full boil, i noticed dat a corner of da tin foil wasn't stickin onto da back wall. so i reached over 2 press it down. yet da pot isn't boiling yet...bored & doopy frm being sick, i decided to just stand der 2 wait 4 it 2 boil, & look @ my split ends on my hair....

then

I SCREAMED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

(ME START TO BURST IN2 TEARS)


I BURNED MY OWN HAIR OVER MY OWN STOVE


!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i didnt kno my hair was 2 long & it swept over my flaming gas range wif da pot on it as i reached over 2 fix da tin foil!!!

u do NOT understand how upset & pain i went thru. clutchin 2 my poor poor strand of hair, sm of da ends turned in2 a light brown color, curled & was so ****in CRISPY dat wen i touched it, da ends fell off.....................

i just wanna cry!!!!!!! (& i did. i wailed like a baby).

hubby came running 2 c wut i was crying abt. & i swear. stupid MEN. they will NEVER understand!!!!! not only was he not sympathic. he gave me stupid not-a-matter-of-factly-attitude!!!!!!

hubby: comon~ it's nth. it's only a lil bit

Me: wuuuu.....WUUUUUU.....WAAAAHHHH!!!

hubby: since u dunt hv work 2mrw, just go 2 hair dresser. it's abt time 4 u 2 trim anyways

Me: it's not abt trimming hair. it's abt BURNING UR OWN HAIR. SO CHAMMMMMMM ARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

hubby: dunt b a baby like ur lil cousin & cry over getting short hair

Me: (WAILING)I'M A GIRL!!!! U DUNT UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOT ONLY UR NOT TUM-ING ME, BUT UR BEING SO MEAN. U DUNT UNDERSTAND CUS UR NOT A GIRL....WUUUUU...WUUUUU....WAAAAAA....WUUUU

so i stood der 4 like 1/2 hr crying wailing bawling as i took my kitchen sissors & started 2 try & trim off all da burned ends hair by hair. finally, hubby came back wif betta attitude.

hubby: just stop crying, it's getting annoying. come inside 2 sleep...i sek fan u la

Me: ......wuuu...wuuu....wuuuu.....k......

so we walked in2 our room, i walk in2 our bathroom 2 brush teeth 2 get ready 4 bed. i decided 2 check on my rite side of my strand of long hair.....

Me: WAAAAAAAAA WWUUUUUUUUUUUWUUUUUU >___<" DA OTHER SIDE ****IN BURNED 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

so i spent another 30 mins or so crying..... i couldn't sleep @ all. i was so sad. u do not understand. it was already like close 2 midnite...i didn't wanna call ppl dat would kno how 2 comfort me cus it was so late already. hubby will NEVER EVER understand... so i just wrapped myself in my blankie, & took my KeiKei snowman doll 2 pui me outside 2 sit on da couch 2 cry sm more. *sigh*. even by 2day...ya, it's a funny story. but im still upset. gud thing only a LIL bit burned. but still, a LIL is TOO MUCH!!!!!!! aiii.

@least my hair still looks ok.... aiiii... i still wanna cry thinkin abt it.
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Intelstan

I don't understand, the sadness is from needing to cut your hair to make it short or of embarrassment due to burning your own hair?

Alcoholic

原帖由 Intelstan 於 2008-3-18 09:46 PM 發表
I don't understand, the sadness is from needing to cut your hair to make it short or of embarrassment due to burning your own hair?

obviously guys will not understand...because you're a guy too
but at least, you pointed out the 2 different points of view, guy perspective VS girl perspective....


the issue is:
GIRL, BURNING YOUR OWN HAIR

big_tooth

Problem is your husband doesn't understand you, not men don't understand women.

SAZABI

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-19 06:55 發表
Problem is your husband doesn't understand you, not men don't understand women.

So, you do understand?  Congratz then.

big_tooth

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-19 08:12 發表


So, you do understand?  Congratz then.

Sazabi, I don't have to understand Alc.

SAZABI

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-19 08:22 發表


Sazabi, I don't have to understand Alc.

No, I mean if you understand why it is such a big deal, b/c I don't obviously

Alcoholic

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-19 06:55 AM 發表
Problem is your husband doesn't understand you, not men don't understand women.

噢~ 原來你做過問卷調查我唔知
真搞笑。

知道既男性朋友個個都話唔係大問題,係咪遲早都要剪頭髮
知道既女性朋友個個都話如果係佢，一定好似我咁喊。我有朋友similar case, but her hair got caught inside blow dryer. she was crying...she thought her fiance would carefully cut off the tangled strands...but NO. he frigging YANKED out her strands of hair extensions. at the end, he put down the pulled out extensions & only said to her: "還給妳".

The problem is you try to apply your 道理 to everything. 太自我中心.

SAZABI

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-19 09:17 發表

我有朋友similar case, but her hair got caught inside blow dryer. she was crying...she thought her fiance would carefully cut off the tangled strands...but NO. he frigging YANKED out her strands of hair extensions. at the end, he put down the pulled out extensions & only said to her: "還給妳".

I can understand this one... that is very rude...

Alcoholic

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-19 09:21 AM 發表


I can understand this one... that is very rude...

not just rude.
ok, maybe he was just eagered to get his fiancee's hair out asap
but the fact is that guys just don't CARE for girls' hair. as my friend said, why can't he just cut it off quickly? the results are still the same you know.
of course, the part about "here's your hair back" is kinda rude. but it's not like he's mean geh... at the end, he said to my friend the same thing: it's ok, hair will grow back anyhow....and the extensions are not your own hair anyways.

we girls are upset cus even if it was our fault of getting our hair damaged, at least be a little more sympathetic and a little more gentle on girl's hair.